May 19th

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Outfit:

Chocolate brown JCREW tee (have you sensed a theme here? yes, I love jcrew tee-shirts)

Chocolate and turquoise wrap skirt that I made myself

Turquoise jeweled sandals (Target)

Turquoise and brown dangly earrings (Target)

Menu Plan:

breakfast: small bowl whole milk plain yogurt with sliced bananas, raspberries and blueberries, cafe au lait

snack: latte with coconut macaroon*

lunch: leftover cheese quesadilla wrapped around slices of avocado, three strawberries

dinner: Barbecued cheeseburgers with the works, corn on the cob, few tablespoons of maple bacon beans, watermelon for dessert, water

*This morning while the kids were at school we went to this fabulous coffeeshop downtown. We sat at the cafe tables on the sidewalk out front, soaking up the sun and people watching.

This particular cafe has the best lattes in town, in my book, so I had one of those, along with a coconut macaroon. I had told myself I wasn’t getting a treat unless they had almond croissants. They didn’t have any, but at the last minute I ordered the macaroon. No contest. The macaroon is one of the most delicious pastry items I’ve ever had in my life. Forget the almond croissants from now on. The macaroon was tiny, but super satisfying. It was the perfect blend of sticky and chewy on the inside and crunchy on the outside. Yum.

Later, I bought potting soil for my project tomorrow, transplanting my tomato, herb and flower seedlings into pots. I’ve been carting the flat of seedlings inside each night, worried that it would be too cold. I think we’ve finally warmed up enough for a night outside! I can’t wait. I have six tomato plants, three Italian parsleys, one rosemary, a basil (I have two basil plants in my kitchen window garden already) and three pots of deep red geraniums to plant.

My kitchen window garden:

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  1. Heather Byrd
    May 19th, 2009 at 18:09 | #1

    Tell me how you make a skirt like that! I’m in love.

  2. Kristi
    May 19th, 2009 at 18:13 | #2

    It is a super beginner pattern. I don’t even own a sewing machine, but my awesome SIL let me come over and use hers. I asked her for help once or twice, but it was a cinch. Do you want me to look up the name of the pattern, etc. and email you?

  3. Marsi
    May 19th, 2009 at 20:21 | #3

    Very cute outfit, and I love the new masthead.

  4. Bill
    May 20th, 2009 at 00:13 | #4

    Did you drink the cafe au lait in a La Gamin mug?

  5. Heather Byrd
    May 20th, 2009 at 02:11 | #5

    I would love that! Especially since it’s do-able for those fabrically challenged individuals (not that I am, I’m just saying… :) )

    heather@billandheather.net

  6. May 20th, 2009 at 12:23 | #6

    I like the new header on your blog. Very nice. Everyone raves about J.Crew t-shirts. I must try them out.

  7. Kristi
    May 20th, 2009 at 12:46 | #7

    Stephanie,
    I’ve had the most luck quality-wise with the perfect fit tees. I am wearing another style from jcrew where the fabric just didn’t hold up (pilled easily) and so now it is a t-shirt to garden in/wear to bed/around the house only.

  8. Kristi
    May 20th, 2009 at 12:47 | #8

    Yes. It is my wonderful Le Gamin bowl that was a birthday present from my brother — oh wait, I think I ended up buying it for myself! I guess that’s OK since he’s such a great guy and is helping me out so much on my blog. : )

  9. Kristi
    May 20th, 2009 at 12:59 | #9

    Heather,
    It is the Kwik Sew Kwik-Start Pattern no. 2954. I took the pattern, a bolt of fabric up to the counter and said, “tell me what I need and how much, etc.”
    I had no idea. The man who worked at this shop told me to skip the instructions for the waistband and tie and just sew a grossgrain ribbon on it for the tie, which saved a ton of work.
    Good luck!

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What is it about those Italian women? You know the ones I’m talking about: beautiful, sexy, dressed to the nines just to take the kids to the park. They have a certain something that is indefinable. It is in the way they dress, the way they prepare their meals, the way they spend their leisure time.

It is because they know the importance of la bella figura. Roughly translated from Italian, it means putting you best foot forward in everything you do. It means cutting a beautiful figura. The opposite of la bella figura is la brutta figura, which is what someone might say about the falling down drunken guy at the party or the super tackily dressed woman at church. It means ugly figure.

La bella figura is much more than your appearance. It goes much deeper than that. It is about how you act. It is about how you treat others. It is about how you care for yourself, your home and your family. Living a life in line with la bella figura doesn’t take money. In fact, it is more about how to have class without a lot of money.

Someone who exudes la bella figura will have clean, pressed clothes and be well groomed. They will not be rude or sloppy. Their fingernails will be impeccably groomed. Their hair shiny and clean and their shoes will be polished. They will not have stray threads hanging from their suit hems. They will not be driving a car in need of the car wash.

La bella figura means driving that 15 year old car and meticulously cleaning it and caring for it. It means keeping your belongings in good repair. It means taking time to clean your house and not cluttering it up with meaningless objects.

When you focus all your spare energy, time and money on the things that bring you the most amount of pleasure, then you are truly living a life in line with la bella figura. The best part about it is that you don’t have to be Italian to do so. You just have to think like an Italian.

Italian children are raised to present la bella figura in whatever they do. From the time they are small and are groomed perfectly to attend church or school, they know that appearances count. They count because it is the first thing people judge about you. That first impression does matter. Appearances are also important because when you take the time to look nice, you are showing that you care about yourself. When you care enough to look good, it shows you have good healthy self esteem. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence.

In addition, dressing nice also shows respect for others. If you invite people over for dinner and greet them in flip flops, baggy sweats and a stained shirt, it is really disrespectful to them. The same if you dress sloppy to go to church or even to the market. By dressing nicely and being well groomed, you show respect for everyone in your world.

Having la bella figura means presenting yourself in the best light possible in all your interactions.