June 3rd

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Outfit:

Mossimo black tee

Levis

Black velvet French Sole ballet flats

Vintage Mexican silver choker

Menu:

Breakfast: Homemade bread toasted 1/2 slice with butter and peanutbutter and 1/2 slice with apricot Bonne Maman preserves, cafe au lait

Snack: string cheese

Lunch: Salad inspired by a blogger I can’t recall. (If you know who I’m talking about can you let me know. I didn’t bookmark the blog and don’t remember it) She was visiting a friend in Belgium and they had a salad for lunch with green beans, radishes, slices of olive, avocado and hard boiled egg with a honey/mustard/lemon juice/olive oil vinaigrette. I added romaine and salami to mine. I also had a mini Rice Krispie Treat.

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Snack: I usually try not to snack, but did twice today. I had more string cheese and another mini Rice Krispie bar

Dinner: Chicken Scallopine with a white wine, lemon and italian parsley sauce; red potatoes boiled and then dressed in a viniagrette; fresh bread with butter; wine

Walking

Now that I feel better this week, I’m trying to walk as much as I can. I walked to the library on Monday, my daughter’s school yesterday and to the wine store today. It feels great to be outside again.

 

More from Style Beauty Trimness

Marsi mentioned earlier she hoped I would post more about this book and I am very happy to do so.

One section I found interesting was the one on “Trimness” which really talked about eating habits.

The first thing the author says is make sure you think long and hard about whether you truly want to/need to lose weight or whether you are just being too hard on yourself.

Now, if you do want to lose weight or maintain, here’s what she says:

“The first and foremost secret is to eat. Yes. I did say eat. Eat everything you love. Dine as though you were royalty. Be luxurious. Enjoy real creme in your coffee. A glass of wine with meals. Real butter, cheese, bread, sweet fruits, luscious desserts. Do not consider yourself to be on a diet. Consider it to be a glamorous lifestyle, a means of self care, maintenance of yourself, anything, but not a diet. You will not encounter a Parisian who is “on a diet.” Parisians think the idea is crazy. Life is too short. That coupled with the fact that being “on a diet” simply provokes one to cheat. Just try teling yourself that you cannot eat something and you will become obsessed with the longing to have that very something! Which means you will cheat, over-eat, feel awful and never accomplish the weight loss goal that you may have. Therefore do not deny yourself your favorite foods. Have your favorite things to eat often. The real secrets are not what you eat, but how you eat.

Staying slender comes from valuing oneself and taking good care of oneself. Things like a spritz of perfurme, beautiful lingerie, clothing and shoes, and a pleasant demeanor all say that you care for yourself. That you value yourself. That you are willing to have good daily habits in order to be the best you can be. This attitude enhances slimness. If poeple do not like themselves very much, slopping around in sweats and uncombed hair on the weekends, they are not very likely to be slender either. An appreciation of overall beauty definitely causes an appreciation and awareness of the figure.”

The author goes on to say that it is crucial to eat on a schedule. Here’s her typical menu for the day:

9 a.m. breakfast: coffee with real cream; 2 slices toast with real butter and preserves; Yoplait yogurt; fresh blackberries

12 p.m. luncheon: pizza slice;  fresh greens with garlic, oilve oil, walnuts and fried potatoes; fresh cherries; miniature cupcake; red wine; evian water

4:30 p.m. afternoon snack: something pleasant to drink. today it is my family’s special recipe of creamy hot cocoa made with 8 oz skim milk, 1 tbl of real unsweetened cocao and 2 tbl honey; fresh Kiwi fruit; 1 raspberry creme filled cookie

7 p.m. dinner: mushroom pasta in creme sauce; bread with real butter; cheese; fresh strawberries; red wine

I’ll post more from the book on another day.

  1. Marsi
    June 4th, 2009 at 09:41 | #1

    Thanks for indulging me, Kristi. Her “diet” sounds pretty wonderful, and so does yours.

  2. June 4th, 2009 at 19:27 | #2

    Kristi, you eat really well. I mean, nice ingredients and really good flavorful food. Do you find it expensive? From your menus, it seems like you eat more whole foods and hardly any processed foods. Does cutting out the processed foods balance the food bill? Your salad looks great.

  3. June 4th, 2009 at 20:37 | #3

    Kristi,
    I love the tablecloth and napkins, the carafe, the dishes–you set a lovely table. The salad looks delicious–a gorgeous salade composée!

  4. Kristi
    June 5th, 2009 at 07:07 | #4

    Annecychic, remember there’s always an extra place at the table for paesana!
    Stephanie, I am on a really, really tight budget and yes, I think it does save me money to cut out processed foods. I wrote about my grocery list on May 25th and I’ve found that each week I spend most of my money on the perishables: fruits and vegetables, milk, eggs, yogurt. This week I did buy something that is processed: tortilla chips for taco salad last night. Yum. Oh yes, and I did eat Rice Krispie treats and Cheez its, but I don’t usually buy those things.

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What is it about those Italian women? You know the ones I’m talking about: beautiful, sexy, dressed to the nines just to take the kids to the park. They have a certain something that is indefinable. It is in the way they dress, the way they prepare their meals, the way they spend their leisure time.

It is because they know the importance of la bella figura. Roughly translated from Italian, it means putting you best foot forward in everything you do. It means cutting a beautiful figura. The opposite of la bella figura is la brutta figura, which is what someone might say about the falling down drunken guy at the party or the super tackily dressed woman at church. It means ugly figure.

La bella figura is much more than your appearance. It goes much deeper than that. It is about how you act. It is about how you treat others. It is about how you care for yourself, your home and your family. Living a life in line with la bella figura doesn’t take money. In fact, it is more about how to have class without a lot of money.

Someone who exudes la bella figura will have clean, pressed clothes and be well groomed. They will not be rude or sloppy. Their fingernails will be impeccably groomed. Their hair shiny and clean and their shoes will be polished. They will not have stray threads hanging from their suit hems. They will not be driving a car in need of the car wash.

La bella figura means driving that 15 year old car and meticulously cleaning it and caring for it. It means keeping your belongings in good repair. It means taking time to clean your house and not cluttering it up with meaningless objects.

When you focus all your spare energy, time and money on the things that bring you the most amount of pleasure, then you are truly living a life in line with la bella figura. The best part about it is that you don’t have to be Italian to do so. You just have to think like an Italian.

Italian children are raised to present la bella figura in whatever they do. From the time they are small and are groomed perfectly to attend church or school, they know that appearances count. They count because it is the first thing people judge about you. That first impression does matter. Appearances are also important because when you take the time to look nice, you are showing that you care about yourself. When you care enough to look good, it shows you have good healthy self esteem. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence.

In addition, dressing nice also shows respect for others. If you invite people over for dinner and greet them in flip flops, baggy sweats and a stained shirt, it is really disrespectful to them. The same if you dress sloppy to go to church or even to the market. By dressing nicely and being well groomed, you show respect for everyone in your world.

Having la bella figura means presenting yourself in the best light possible in all your interactions.