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European Chic/Sept. 21

September 21st, 2009 Kristi Leave a comment Go to comments

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White button-up blouse from husband’s closet

Levis rolled up

VIntage Mexican silver choker

Turquoise sandals (Target)

Menu:

Breakfast: small dish plain whole milk yogurt; coffee

Lunch: hard roll with laughing cow cheese spread; leftover green salad; carrots

Dinner: McDonald’s cheeseburger brought home; wine (It was for convenience sake and didn’t taste that great.)

Finances:

$65 at market

$9 at Savers for (NEW!) Halloween costumes for kids (I buy them here every year)

European Chic

I am truly a xenofile. I especially am drawn to Europeans. Over the years, my best friends have been from other countries. It just seems that we relate the best. I am not an oddball with them, but one of a kind.

Since I moved to the Midwest I have naturally become friends with women from France and Italy.

This week I noticed the style of another mom dropping off her child at preschool. She wore, dark, nearly black jeans cuffed, tweedish ballet slippers with many colors in them, a purple teeshirt with a ruby red cardigan over it and a funky redish hanging necklace. Cute.

Well it ends up she’s from Germany.

I enjoy seeing her every week because she always has something different on that is simple, yet chic.

Today she had on a gray low cut tshirt with a brown cardigan over it, dark jeans and brown suedish flats. She had a silk scarf in red, black, browns and grays knotted in an ascot style at her neck.

She also always has her red patent leather handbag, which is lovely.

Anyway, it is so much fun to have someone whose style I admire cross my path. Sad that it is so rare. I know there is a lot more important things to wory about rather than how you dress, but sometimes I think with just a little effort, you can improve your self esteem and maybe even your life a little.

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  1. September 22nd, 2009 at 07:08 | #1

    I love this look on you. There is something so chic about a button down shirt like this. Bravo.

  2. Marsi
    September 22nd, 2009 at 09:17 | #2

    Love the shirt. Nina Garcia’s “The One Hundred” book lists a man’s white shirt as one of the 100 things every woman should have in her wardrobe. An amusing little book. Good for reading in the bathtub.

    It’s definitely sad that so few women take time to look better, especially considering how little time it actually takes to spruce oneself up. And it certainly takes no more time to pull on a t-shirt, a skirt, and sandals than a t-shirt, sweatpants, and tennis shoes. So why NOT make the effort, right? I just don’t get it. Anyway, keep fighting the good fight. Your husband and daughters appreciate it, and so does anyone else whose view you brighten. Who knows, maybe you are inspiring someone at preschool (or wherever) to take better care of herself and you don’t even know it?

  3. September 22nd, 2009 at 09:29 | #3

    I agree with Marsi, I bet you are inspiring someone else at preschool. :)

  4. Liz
    September 22nd, 2009 at 10:27 | #4

    Hot outfit …and I am in love with your bag.

  5. Beth G.
    September 22nd, 2009 at 12:02 | #5

    Oh my word, yes I can relate! I work for a very large company and our dress code is “business casual.” So many of my co-workers interpret this as sweat pants, Crocs (don’t get me started!), sloppy t-shirts emblazoned with cartoon characters, yoga-type workout pants… I don’t understand why one doesn’t want to make an effort. To me, it shows I take my job seriously; plus it’s fun! It’s great to wear attractive clothes and take a little extra care with my hair and makeup. There are plenty of cold, snowy Saturdays when I spend the day inside cooking or reading or watching movies, and I don’t wash my hair (to prolong my hair color, I tell myself) and wear fuzzy sweat pants all day. But not to work. This is my job, and I want my co-workers and customers to know that I care about it. It’s rather sad to see how little people care.

  6. September 22nd, 2009 at 12:02 | #6

    You certainly do look tres chic today! I have to agree with the other ladies, you are probably inspiring more people every day than you think!

  7. Kristi
    September 22nd, 2009 at 13:37 | #7

    Thanks for all the nice comments.
    It’s funny because I don’t really dress up — geez, I wear Levis and the same dang sandals every day, but at least I try, you know? I hope you are all having a great day!
    K

  8. Renee
    September 22nd, 2009 at 14:56 | #8

    You look great in this outfit! Very creative.

  9. Robin
    September 22nd, 2009 at 16:02 | #9

    You look very pretty! Where is your bag from? It looks very chic!

  10. September 23rd, 2009 at 09:39 | #10

    I looove this look on you! Very chic! I am sure you do a lot to inspire the women around you. Coming from an area where pj bottoms are acceptable everyday-out-and-about wear…I so appreciate this post! Have you had a chance to talk with the mom you mentioned above?

    I am slowly catching up with emails and posts…I have had quite the busy few weeks here of late and with some coming up, I wanted to be sure to stop by and say hello. The busy-ness seems to go in cycles.

    xo Cat

  11. September 23rd, 2009 at 09:41 | #11

    Kristi :
    Thanks for all the nice comments.
    It’s funny because I don’t really dress up — geez, I wear Levis and the same dang sandals every day, but at least I try, you know? I hope you are all having a great day!
    K

    I have to just add here…

    For someone who wears levis and sandals everyday…you look fabulous…and it shows that you try. I believe that is the key right there! ;)

    xo Cat

  12. September 23rd, 2009 at 12:15 | #12

    I think you look great!! And you can even wear the same style when it gets colder out if you cuff the pants a little longer (only roll them once) and wear some closed toe flats. I think your green cardigan might look really nice with it too! I like it when I wear a cardigan and have the sleeve cuffs folded over the sweater at my wrists. A men’s style shirt is one of my favorite things to wear! I cant always wear my boyfriend’s as they are too big for me, but I usually buy a womens one a size up or two.

  13. September 23rd, 2009 at 18:03 | #13

    There you go, hit your husband’s closet and wherever he keeps his sweaters as often as you can. Men’s clothes are great wardrobe additions for us and you certainly do look glamorous in that white shirt.

  14. September 23rd, 2009 at 21:36 | #14

    Kristi,

    It may seem to you like Levis and the same sandals, but it doesn’t come off that way at all. As a reader, I see a well-groomed woman who exudes confidence and style. Like a previous poster said, very inspiring.

  15. September 23rd, 2009 at 21:44 | #15

    Hi Kristi,
    I don’t know why, but I just can’t pull off the whole “crisp, white shirt” look. I like how you changed the shape of it by tying it and the fact that it is meant to look more relaxed instead of crisp. I also don’t see much fashion inspiration in my everyday life, but I did once see someone at the library who had an air of chicness that wasn’t even in her clothes. She was just wearing an olive green t-shirt and jeans and some dark brown loafers (not even my style!). But she just looked elegant. Then she took a call on her cellphone(quietly:) and I’m pretty sure she was speaking Portuguese. Coincidence, or not?

  16. September 23rd, 2009 at 22:30 | #16

    K, you look SO chic. I know you tried this look before, but said it wasn’t you; that may be true, but you look fantastic so you can definitely pull it off. Great look–maybe you should try it with heels . . .

    a

  17. Kristi
    September 24th, 2009 at 07:40 | #17

    Thanks again everyone for your comments. I avoid white like the plague, but I think I can pull it off if my lipstick is dark enough. Otherwise, I am really washed out. A, I want to try it with heels thanks. I think with my tight budget, I will be raiding his closet more often.!
    It is so great to know there are all these fashion inspirations and like-minded women out there, even if I only know all of you online! Thanks for the encouragement!
    PS
    I think the best compliment I got this day was a friend of mine talking to another woman (while I was there) saying about me: “For her it’s just EFFORTLESS.”
    That’s what I’ve been shooting for ….

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What is it about those Italian women? You know the ones I’m talking about: beautiful, sexy, dressed to the nines just to take the kids to the park. They have a certain something that is indefinable. It is in the way they dress, the way they prepare their meals, the way they spend their leisure time.

It is because they know the importance of la bella figura. Roughly translated from Italian, it means putting you best foot forward in everything you do. It means cutting a beautiful figura. The opposite of la bella figura is la brutta figura, which is what someone might say about the falling down drunken guy at the party or the super tackily dressed woman at church. It means ugly figure.

La bella figura is much more than your appearance. It goes much deeper than that. It is about how you act. It is about how you treat others. It is about how you care for yourself, your home and your family. Living a life in line with la bella figura doesn’t take money. In fact, it is more about how to have class without a lot of money.

Someone who exudes la bella figura will have clean, pressed clothes and be well groomed. They will not be rude or sloppy. Their fingernails will be impeccably groomed. Their hair shiny and clean and their shoes will be polished. They will not have stray threads hanging from their suit hems. They will not be driving a car in need of the car wash.

La bella figura means driving that 15 year old car and meticulously cleaning it and caring for it. It means keeping your belongings in good repair. It means taking time to clean your house and not cluttering it up with meaningless objects.

When you focus all your spare energy, time and money on the things that bring you the most amount of pleasure, then you are truly living a life in line with la bella figura. The best part about it is that you don’t have to be Italian to do so. You just have to think like an Italian.

Italian children are raised to present la bella figura in whatever they do. From the time they are small and are groomed perfectly to attend church or school, they know that appearances count. They count because it is the first thing people judge about you. That first impression does matter. Appearances are also important because when you take the time to look nice, you are showing that you care about yourself. When you care enough to look good, it shows you have good healthy self esteem. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence.

In addition, dressing nice also shows respect for others. If you invite people over for dinner and greet them in flip flops, baggy sweats and a stained shirt, it is really disrespectful to them. The same if you dress sloppy to go to church or even to the market. By dressing nicely and being well groomed, you show respect for everyone in your world.

Having la bella figura means presenting yourself in the best light possible in all your interactions.