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The Row

September 3rd, 2010 Kristi 2 comments

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Waiting for fall

August 26th, 2010 Kristi 9 comments

It is finally cool enough for me to wear something other than a sundress and flip flops

I never thought I would say this, but I’m looking forward to fall.

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Gillian Tennant

August 21st, 2010 Kristi 7 comments

I would love to own some of these dreamy, ethereal clothes in creamy beiges and silky blacks. I really am lusting after the second photo, the bohemian style top and the little beige skirt. All of her clothes look effortless, chic and maybe best of all — comfortable. You can see more of her lovely clothes here.

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The Writing Life

August 7th, 2010 Kristi 15 comments

 

As many of you know, my thoughts about this blog have been rather ambivalent since summer began.

I think I finally have come to a decision. I think I am taking a semi-hiatus.

What I am planning to do is basically what I have done all summer: only post if something inspires me. Greatly.

I have already changed the format of the blog in this way, away from posting daily outfits and menus. I have already lost a lot of readership by doing this because I know this is what keeps people coming back, but I just don’t have it in me to do that right now. Maybe in the future I will return to that format.

Meanwhile, I need to expend all my free time and energy on writing my novel.

There were two poignant statements that helped me make this decision, each found in a writing book.

In Becoming a Writer by Dorothea Brande she writes: “Only engage in extracurricular activities that inspire your artistic side.”

In Chapter After Chapter by Heather Sellers, I read about how successful writers limit themselves to only one “extracurricular” activity and that “successful writers limit what goes into their brains, what taxes their time and they select for quality.” Sellers writes that the “number one reason books don’t get finished is this: writers say yes to other things.”

I am more than 40,000 words into my first novel and I need to make it my priority so my posting will probably become even more sporadic.

Thank you to everyone who reads my blog, I have found so many kindred spirits here and so much inspiration, but right now I need to turn inward for a bit and as writer Phyllis Bourne once  told me “write fast, write hot.”

K

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Cheap Chic

August 4th, 2010 Kristi 8 comments

 

I’m loving this new tote bag from Target.

 Yesterday I walked to the market and inside its roomy interior was able to fit red onions, yellow onions, tomatoes, cheese, bagels, cream cheese and all the other items I usally cart around in my handbag: wallet, cosmetic bag, two journals, reading glasses and so on.

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Another Sale

July 27th, 2010 Kristi 2 comments

An even better deal on my book:

http://labellafigura.net/book

Use coupon code SANTA305 at checkout and receive 20% off your order. Maximum savings with this comically early holiday promotion is $50. You can only use the code once per account, and you can’t use this coupon in combination with other coupon codes. Sorry, but eBook purchases aren’t eligible. This great offer ends when Santa gets back from his vacation – on July 31, 2010 so don’t miss out! While very unlikely we do reserve the right to change or revoke this offer at anytime, and of course we cannot offer this coupon where it is against the law to do so.
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Dreamy

July 27th, 2010 Kristi 6 comments

from THE MINNEAPOLINE

from SO MUCH TO TELL YOU

from LOLA IS BEAUTY

from LE PORTILLON

from LE PORTILLON

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Woohoo! New Book from Phyllis Bourne!

July 24th, 2010 Kristi 6 comments

 

I’m looking forward to digging into the latest book from the lovely and talented Phyllis Bourne.

I just got it in the mail and want to curl up with a glass of wine and read it in bed tonight.

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Thank you and Summer Sale

July 23rd, 2010 Kristi No comments

Thank you for all the kind words. I am sticking with the red dress. There are so many shades of red and this is the one that works for my coloring. I’m trying out another red dress today …. same shade different dress.

Lulu is having a summer sale: Purchase La Bella Figura 15% off with coupon code BEACHREAD305 until 8/15/10

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Thrift Store Love

July 22nd, 2010 Kristi 14 comments

I picked up this Gap dress at the thrift store this week for $7, along with another $7 red dress.

I was wearing it at the pool and another mother stopped me:

“Excuse me, I just have to tell you that dress is gorgeous on you.”

How sweet.

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What is it about those Italian women? You know the ones I’m talking about: beautiful, sexy, dressed to the nines just to take the kids to the park. They have a certain something that is indefinable. It is in the way they dress, the way they prepare their meals, the way they spend their leisure time.

It is because they know the importance of la bella figura. Roughly translated from Italian, it means putting you best foot forward in everything you do. It means cutting a beautiful figura. The opposite of la bella figura is la brutta figura, which is what someone might say about the falling down drunken guy at the party or the super tackily dressed woman at church. It means ugly figure.

La bella figura is much more than your appearance. It goes much deeper than that. It is about how you act. It is about how you treat others. It is about how you care for yourself, your home and your family. Living a life in line with la bella figura doesn’t take money. In fact, it is more about how to have class without a lot of money.

Someone who exudes la bella figura will have clean, pressed clothes and be well groomed. They will not be rude or sloppy. Their fingernails will be impeccably groomed. Their hair shiny and clean and their shoes will be polished. They will not have stray threads hanging from their suit hems. They will not be driving a car in need of the car wash.

La bella figura means driving that 15 year old car and meticulously cleaning it and caring for it. It means keeping your belongings in good repair. It means taking time to clean your house and not cluttering it up with meaningless objects.

When you focus all your spare energy, time and money on the things that bring you the most amount of pleasure, then you are truly living a life in line with la bella figura. The best part about it is that you don’t have to be Italian to do so. You just have to think like an Italian.

Italian children are raised to present la bella figura in whatever they do. From the time they are small and are groomed perfectly to attend church or school, they know that appearances count. They count because it is the first thing people judge about you. That first impression does matter. Appearances are also important because when you take the time to look nice, you are showing that you care about yourself. When you care enough to look good, it shows you have good healthy self esteem. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence.

In addition, dressing nice also shows respect for others. If you invite people over for dinner and greet them in flip flops, baggy sweats and a stained shirt, it is really disrespectful to them. The same if you dress sloppy to go to church or even to the market. By dressing nicely and being well groomed, you show respect for everyone in your world.

Having la bella figura means presenting yourself in the best light possible in all your interactions.