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Weekend

March 8th, 2010 Kristi 4 comments

Old Navy Blouse - Express skirt (thrifted) - Sesto Meucci boots - Silver hoops - Silver chain


I had such a great weekend.
Friday night one of my relatives was on TLC’s What Not to Wear (no, she was NOT the nominee), so my SIL had a big party at her house where a bunch of us watched it and drank wine and ate munchies.
Saturday was low key, had some friends over, watched Caprica on Hulu.
Sunday my friend had an oscar party for the ladies including champagne and munchies.
I think we all have spring fever here and are getting the energy to get out and socialize that springtime brings.

I took a trip to the thrift store despite my not a cent in lent challenge. I tried on shoes, blouses, jeans, skirts, dresses, but didn’t buy anything except some more art supplies, which I decided awhile ago, are an investment and are exempt from the challenge. The last time I tried to sell some, someone bought all six pieces, so now time to replenish my stock, so to speak.

Although I love doing a dual post with A this week, I honestly don’t like any of the looks I am coming up with. I am not happy with the tight restriction in my clothing and think I may have chosen the wrong pieces to create a chic look. It’s a good lesson for me. I’m sure A. will do better …
PS This picture was taken of Sunday’s outfit … not part of the dual closet posts …

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Style Questions

March 5th, 2010 Kristi 3 comments

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

Regular readers will recognize this outfit from Monday’s post. This has been my winter “go to” outfit. I usually live in jeans, but got soo sick of them this winter, I thought I’d try out a new look: extra large man’s sweater, small skirt, tights and boots.

I like it because it is chic, but yet still looks effortless. I would love to live in NYC and be dressed up all the time, but  in my little world, which involves preschool pickup, playdates, the park, etc., casual chic is key. Plus I need something that is super comfortable and won’t be ruined by sticky little hands with jelly or by me kneeling on the floor to play with the kids.

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

Perfect fitting jeans.

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

I’m aiming toward:  Effortless chic and subtly sexy

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

Clemence Poesy, Julie Delpy, Sofia Coppola

Clemence Poesy

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Clemence Poesy

Julie Delpy

Julie Delpy

Julie Delpy

Sofia Coppola

Sofia Coppola

Sofia Coppola

 

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

Study yourself. It seems a little self-indulgent, but I’ve spent quite a bit of time thinking about my style. I read Style Statement, which helped, but also every other style book I could get my hands on. Probably the biggest help has been this blog. Partly, as Fiona said, in taking pictures. You can see things you wouldn’t otherwise see through the camera’s objective eye. Also, by all the comments from people who read my blog. In addition, like Andi, I keep a look book, one on the computer where I copy photographs, but also a binder where I keep pages I rip out of magazines of women I find stylish or inspirational. The photos of my style icons (above) were in my computer’s style file.

What are the essential items every woman should have in her closet?

a perfect-fitting pair of jeans; a black blazer; LBD; boots; cashmere scarf;

What cosmetics and skin care products do you use/like?

I’m not particularly brand loyal when it comes to foundation, but wear Clinique lipstick, MAC lipliner pencil and Maybelline professional mascara. I have problem skin and swear by the three step Proactiv system, plus use a retinoid at night.

How much money do you spend on your wardrobe every month? every year?

Boy this is a tough question. I’m not sure I really keep track of it that well, but if I had to guess, I would say about $500, but that could be too high. I’m a huge thrift store shopper.

What is the advice you would give a  new mother?

 As a new mother it is so easy to become completely absorbed and centered around your baby – and you should to a certain extent, but it is important to remember that part of being a good mother is taking care of yourself and maintaining your identity apart from being someone’s mother. I struggle with this all the time, trying to remember who I am besides “Mama.” It helps me be a better mother by remembering this. Take time to do things away from your husband and children and maintain your own life, although this is very difficult at first. I still have a hard time being away from my kids for more than a few hours.

What is your most important beauty product?

Sunscreen, hands down.

What part of your style aesthetic has remained consistent throughout your life? For example, even though my style became slightly edgier and more experimental after I had my daughter–My love of things with a very slight equestrian edge has never changed.

I think the most consistent aspect of my style aesthetic has been my absolute, uneering strong preference for SOFT fabrics, for the way fabrics FEEL. I am obsessed with velvet, cashmere, soft, worn in tees, soft, worn in jeans. I love clothing that is plush and SOFT and always will. I have always hated ”hard” fabrics like scratchy wools and tweeds and other materials that don’t feel silky against bare skin. I refuse to wear most synthetic blouses because the fabric makes my skin crawl. It just feels horrible on my sensitive skin. 
 
Do you find that your clothing style is consistant/reflective of what you are drawn to in other areas of your life (such as with interior decorating)?

I read something recently about how your home’s colors reflect your style colors, but this is not the case with me. My house (as seen in some photos on this blog) is painted in tangerine, salmon, buttercup yellows and other brights I would never feel comfortable “wearing.” 
 
What is your opinion on the idea that your “style” of dressing reveals something of a personality? Do you think this is something that is uniquely American in concept? For example in France, Italy and other more formal European cultures -that put more of a premium on dressing well-it is difficult to draw a personality sketch of a person from the style of dress.

I just read some book – which one escapes me  right now– that talked about how everything you wear is making a statement to other people and that you should decide exactly what it is you want to tell others before you get dressed.
Honestly,  I’m not sure if this is uniquely American or not. I guess I do think more about what kind of message I am sending when I get dressed nowadays.
If you could change/influence something about the way that your blog readers view style, what would it be? 

That it doesn’t take money OR an extensive wardrobe to dress well.
 
Why did you decide to blog about “la bella figura’, which is a definite point of view (style) of viewing the world?

Because I am part Italian and really influenced by that side of me. It is all about the idea that you are not selfish or vain if you want to look good all the time — that actually you are showing respect for others by doing so. For instance, dressing well to go to the butcher shop shows respect for the butcher, rather than schlepping in with sweatpants on. It is about taking the time to dress nice in the morning so you feel good about yourself and therefore, can stop thinking about it and start thinking about others. Plus, honestly, it’s just a fun, escape.

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Thursday/Film

March 4th, 2010 Kristi 1 comment

 

Levis - Men's Cashmere Sweater (consignment) - Etienne Aigner boots - silver hoops - silver chain

Menu:
Breakfast: bowl of whole milk plain yogurt with homemade granola; banana; cafe au lait
Lunch: leftover green salad from last night with added chunks of ham and cheese, pepperoncini

 

 

 

 

 

 Dinner: roast chicken with potatoes, carrots, onions; wine

 

 

 

Film

We finished the last episode in the HBO series Rome this week. Netflix has made the winter go so much faster. Looking forward to watching the Battlestar Galactica programs and then the Rome series has been so much fun . … what next? Dexter? I’m not sure.

I also watched “In Bruges” last night.

Tonight my other bookclub meets, which is always a good time. This bookclub is also reading (on my suggestion) Sarah’s Key, which my other bookclub read last month.

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Wednesday

March 3rd, 2010 Kristi 7 comments

JCrew Tee - Cashmere Cardigan - Black Cords - Etienne Aigner boots - cashmere scarf - hoops

 This outfit goes in my DIDN’T WORK folder … you can tell by my smile/grimace that I am not happy with this look … oh well. That’s the beauty of having this blog and taking photos of what I wear, clarity!

Menu:
Breakfast: bowl of plain, whole milk yogurt with homemade granola; banana; cafe au lait
Lunch: peanut butter, apricot jam and banana sandwich; tortilla chips
Dinner: Leftover spaghetti; salad; wine

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French Love/Tuesday

March 2nd, 2010 Kristi 10 comments

Gap tee - DKNY blazer - Union Bay cords - Etienne Aigner boots

Menu:
Breakfast: vanilla whole milk yogurt with homemade granola and raisins; cafe au lait
Snack: baby carrots
Lunch: turkey and hot pepper jack cheese with pepperoncini and dijon sandwich
Dinner: Taco Tuesday; wine

French Love

I can’t say for sure, but I suspect my fascination with France and Europe stemmed from reading books about life overseas when I was a child. The books on the left and right were mine as a child.  They may honestly be the only things I still have from my childhood, along with a few pre-teen books I saved. I’m a minimalist and don’t hold onto very many things but these two books made the cut.

The first This is Paris was a gift from my mother’s friend when I was a baby. She had just been to Paris and wrote on the inside that she hoped I could visit there someday (which I have been blessed to be able to do). The one on the right, I’m less certain of the orgins, but if you flip it over, it has Grimm’s fairy tales on the other side (remember those types of books anyone?) The one in the  middle was one I picked up at a thrift store for my own children, hoping to spark their love for Europe.

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Monday/Style Questions

March 1st, 2010 Kristi 4 comments

 

sweater (hand-me-down, husband's friend) - skirt (BR, thrifted) - boots (Liz Claiborne, consignment) - silver hoops

I was experimenting with my tripod today. It worked ok, but after a few tries, the flash wouldn’t work, but I managed to get one photo I like.  Tine talked about how my pose yesterday made me seem more confident, so I am practicing that one again!

Menu:
Breakfast: Two slices homemade bread toasted with butter; cafe au lait
Lunch: leftover salad with three strips of leftover chicken; one italian sausage sliced; one biscotti
Dinner: scrambled eggs, toast; wine

Reminder: Anyone else with style questions please email them to me at: mammaitaliana23@gmail.com  Please don’t be shy. I have already received some great questions and welcome some more before my post on Saturday. Thanks again. You will remain anonymous (in case anyone cares!)

Also, my Not a Cent in Lent program is going great, but today for some reason I just wanted to rush out and spend money on summer sandals! It must be the scorching 40 degree weather we are having. Spring fever has hit me!

Sunday

February 28th, 2010 Kristi 16 comments

 

Gap T - DKNY blazer - BR Skirt - Worthington pumps - husband's scarf

Menu:
Breakfast: Two biscotti; four strips of leftover chicken from last night: cafe au lait
Lunch: snacky Sunday lunch at MIL’s house as usual: pepper jack cheese melted on a raisin bagel; salami slices
Dinner: pasta with marina sauce and Italian Sausage links; braised carrots; green salad with homemade viniagrette; fresh bread with butter; wine

My overcoat. I mentioned a while back that I have to wait a year or two to replace my Calvin Klein coat. I made the mistake (please don’t do the same thing) of loving the coat — its super soft fur cuffs and collar, it’s excellent, excellent superior wool — but buying it in the WRONG size because it was on sale. So much better to have waited and bought a coat in my own size. This is a size 10 and just overwhelms me, I think.

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BIG THANK YOU!

February 28th, 2010 Kristi 4 comments

I just wanted to say a special thank you to the women who participated in the Chic Friends posting. Let me tell you, it takes some courage to have your picture posted online. It took me months to show my face on this blog. I kept hiding it behind the camera …. So a big thank you to all those women, especially those who have never had their photos posted on a blog before. They all have different looks and styles, but I know you will agree that they are all beautiful and chic! I know I learned so much from their style advice and insight and hope you did too.

In a few months, I’m going to have a second round of this post and hope others will want to join in next time.

Anyway, thanks again all you lovely ladies!

Chic Friends

February 25th, 2010 Kristi 14 comments

 
 
 
 This has got to be my all-time favorite post since I began blogging last year. I feel so lucky to have all these chic women as readers of my blog. I constantly benefit from their lazer sharp insight into style and wardrobe issues, not to mention other advice in general and now I can share their tips with you. Enjoy! I know I sure did. Thank you so much for participating everyone!  PS You can find the links to all the people who are also bloggers on the right hand side under “inspiration.”
 

 

 
 
 AAONCE —————————————————————————————————————————–

Aaonce

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I don’t really have a “go to” outfit, but I do have a capsule wardrobe and each piece represented in this picture (as well as other items in my closet) are kept because they are reliable. I wear a lot of black, and I love playing with textures. This outfit is composed of a leather pencil skirt, a black corduroy jacket (with grosgrain ribbon around the edges), cashmere crew neck blouse, a multi-strand pearl necklace, wool hat (It is cold outside), textured tights (difficult to see in this picture) and tall leather black boots.

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

I know that this is kind of cheating, but really I can’t live without my accessories. I have a pretty restrictive color palette (mostly black, navy and gray) so handbags, scarves, shoes/boots, jewelry and the like are called upon to give each outfit some pizzazz and/or color. If I had to choose ONE thing, this week I am totally loving my black leather tall boots by Diane Von Furstenberg, they seem to give a little spice to everything from jeans to pencil skirts.

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

Dramatic/Classic? My aesthetic requires everything I own to be classic, but also have that little something extra that makes it stand out (although for me standing out is done in more of a whisper than a roar).

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

I am inspired by the world around me, people I know/meet, and things I read (blogs and magazines included in that list). I don’t have a style icon, but I know what I like, what works for me, and how I want to present myself.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

Style encompasses a lot of things: your personality, your past/present/future (and what you want to reveal about those things) and of course, what you actually like (your taste). I think magazines, books and  blogs are great guides in helping you express who you are, but that is all they are-guides. Style is innately personal, its your expression. Friends can give a thumbs up or down on the execution of an outfit, but they can’t help you find your “voice” and that voice is the basis of any style. My advice is get to know yourself first, and then dress to express that. Style isn’t about wearing certain clothing items. It is only an expression of who you are.

NANCY from Life is Sweet ——————————————————————————————————-

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

Pairing a good quality tee, with a great fitting pair of jeans is a simple, easy look and is very easy to dress up or down. Or you can add a great scarf, or interesting jewelry, or a blazer, vest, or sweater. AND it’s oh-so comfortable!

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

anything with 3/4 sleeves – 3/4 sleeves are not only classicly chic, they are also universally flattering on every body type.

 What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 ”CCC – classic casual chic”

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

the classic icons like coco, jackie, Vogue

 What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

Educate yourself about your body type, what colors work well for you (fashion, hair, makeup), age-appropriateness of fashion choices, image/body concerns, etc. If you feel overwhelmed by all these choices, find a good image / fashion consultant to help you – it will be money saved in the long run. And lastly, project confidence – that’s the most important ’style’ tip I can give anyone.

JENNIFER from The Daily Connoisseur ————————————————————————————

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

 I am in my second trimester of pregnancy so I need clothes that are both comfortable and fashionable- with room to grow!  I love the combination of a tunic and leggings (both by A Pea in the Pod) because I can move throughout my day with ease.  Ditto for my grey patent leather ballet flats (by London Sole).  These shoes are so comfortable and support my aching back.

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

 My black velvet blazer by J. Crew

 What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 Classic and minimalistic

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

 Marion Cotillard and Penelope Cruz- Those ladies wear their clothes sooooo well…

 What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

 Keep it simple- don’t dress to impress anyone but yourself.  (But having said that, you yourself should have incredibly high standards ;)

Patricia———————————————————————————————————————————

 

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

The reason I chose this outfit is it’s versatility.

I bought it for a casual New Years Eve party this year.

I am partial to little black dresses and have several of different styles. This one is different in that it is black and white. The top is a little sheer so it gives it a little dash of something. I like the way it hangs…flouncy under my knee, which is a very nice style on me.

The dress can be worn all seasons and dressed up or down with a sweater or pashima and different shoes or even boots, and either nude or black hose.

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

The item in my closet I could not live without is my black pencil skirt. I can wear it anywhere, anytime, with anything!

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

I would describe my style as classic elegant feminine.

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

My style icon/fashion inspiration is Mrs. Herrera (the mother) and Grace Kelly. Mrs. Herrera was always feminine and elegant, as was Princess Grace.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

For others who are looking to find their own style, I would suggest paying attention to what you’ve gravitated toward in your formulative years. Practically since the day I was born I was feminine and meticulous. Although in my teen years and 20s I dressed more utilitarian, my mid-life epiphany brought me back to my inner self.

TINE from The Red Geranium————————————————————————————————–

Tine

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I picked this outfit because I wanted to be comfortable and warm, yet also chic.  I wore this when my boyfriend and I went up to his family’s beach house in New Hampshire for a weekend getaway.  It was chilly up north which is why I chose the knit grey sweater, but I still wanted to look chic so I wore it with skinny jeans and mid-calf black flat boots.  It was a gorgeous sunny weekend, so I had to add the over sized sunglasses too!

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

This is a tough question!! I think for the fall/winter my must-have item would be my Dolce Vita black leather knee high boots with a 3″ stacked heed.  These totally can transform an outfit and they go great with tights and a skirt or over skinny jeans.  I even can wear them to work.

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 Classic, yet chic.

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

Audrey Hepburn and Ashley Olsen

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

You need to be 100% comfortable in your skin AND your clothes.  If I wear something that I’m not comfortable with, I feel “off” all day.  If you are interested in a certain trend or style, but are not sure how it will suit you, start off slow and find how you can make it work for you.  For example, I love skinny jeans, but I am much more confident and comfortable wearing them with knee high boots and a chunky sweater than with a tight shirt and ballet flats. 

PHYLLIS  from Phyllis Bourne, romance author————————————————————————-

   

Phyllis

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I spotted this outfit on a display in Nordstrom and immediately fell in love with it.   At the time, brown was my least favorite color.  It’s hard to explain, but it just looked and felt like me. 

I wear it in situations where I know I have to be “on”.  It never fails to give me a little confidence boost.

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

White Target Merona Ultimate V-neck t-shirt

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

Creative, conservative

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

Sade.  Her style: red lipstick, hoop earrings, low ponytail and understated clothes haven’t changed in over twenty-five years.   Yet, she looks timeless, ageless and always on point.

Essence magazine did a special double cover on her back March 2001.  On the front of the magazine was a then-recent shot of her in 2001, and the back cover featured a 1984 shot.  She looked exactly the same. 

Her new album was released this month.  It’s nearly March 2010, and she still looks likes she hasn’t aged a day since 1984.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

 Don’t be afraid to experiment with clothes, make-up and accessories.

Cherie from Renaissance Garden————————————————————————————————

Cherie

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I have on an Ann Taylor sweater, black slacks, black ankle boots with kitten heels, and large hoop earrings in bronze.  I typically wear this type of outfit to church, and casual lunches or meetings.

What one item in your closet could you not live without? 

My black slacks.  They go with almost everything and fit into my casual lifestyle.
What one or two words would you use to describe your style? 

Feminine classic.  I like clean lines, solid colors, with a little bit of a feminine flourish.

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

I would say the usual, Audry Hepburn, Grace Kelly.  More modern would be Jennifer Anniston, Diane Lane.
What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style? 

I think it’s important to be comfortable in the clothes you wear.  In the past I would buy items that were considered “classic,” things “every woman should own,” such as white button-down shirts.  I finally realized those kind of classics don’t work on me.  I’ve also learned to skip most trendy items.

Beth ————————————————————————————————————————————–

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

 This is a typical winter work outfit for me.  It’s cold in eastern Washington!  But the temperature in my office can fluctuate, so layers are important.  You can’t see the fishnet hose or the light herringbone pattern on the skirt but I like to add varieties of subtle patterns or textures.

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

 A black boatneck t-shirt exactly like the white one in the photo.  Perfect length, not clingy, perfect fabric weight.  Also, for the summer, a tan full skirt with embroidered white polka dots.  Classic but not plain — I love to wear it with a navy/white striped nautical t-shirt.

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 Classic separates, ease of care AND wear, always a scarf.

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

 Lauren Hutton and Lauren Graham – they are different but similar in their quirky treatments of classic pieces and shapes.

 What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

 LISTEN when someone says “I love that on you!” or “What a terrific color!”  But if you love it  – even if no one says it out loud — wear it often and with great affection for the pieces that make you happy.

FIONA from La Vie en Fifi———————————————————————————————————–

  Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it? This outfit is indicative of what I wear every day.  Fitting jeans, high heels or cute flats and something nice on top.  I used to work in an office and wore suits and corporate-ish separates.  Now I work full time in the footwear retail store that my husband and I own.  A lot of what we stock and the customers that shop with us are more casual, not so city.  When going to work I always choose a pair of shoes which are current, so this dictates what I wear a little.

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

 The perfect pair of jeans

 What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 I would love to portray ‘relaxed chic’ with my style.

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

 People I see through work on a regular basis (whether they are customers or sales representatives), real peoples’ blogs, movies and tv programmes (these are great for seeing ‘everyday’ outfits which are styled up to give inspiration) and personal style books.  Celebrity photos ‘off-duty’ are useful too.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

Know what you feel more comfortable in (not just physically either).  For me it’s neutral mid-tone colours, clean lines and simple shapes which are fitting but not too tight.

I heard once ages ago that the colour of your hair, skin and eyes is a good starting point for choosing clothing colours.  My hair is caramel/beige/blonde, eyes are grey/blue and skin tone pale-ish pink/yellow (neutral).  So I often look for these colours to wear and do get compliments on them.

Find celebrities who have the same colouring as you and look at photos of them to see if there is a new colour/colour combination you could try.  I read Jennifer Aniston is a ‘Soft Summer’ like I am so saw she looks good in grey and some greens.  Whenever I wear soft greens my husband compliments me.

Take photos of your outfits in the mirror each day (full-length if possible).  Even if no one else sees them they are very useful.  Keep them all.  It’s only looking back when you have built up a few that you get a clear idea of better outfits than others.  The challenge is to find out why and build on that (proportions, colours, accessories).

Andi from Misadventures with Andi———————————————————————————————

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

When I am carrying a little extra weight I tend to wear more skirts and dresses than usual.  85% of my clothes are black-gray-white.  I love wearing boots with skirts and dresses in winter, so comfortable.  It is cold in my office, so I always dress in layers or sweaters to keep warm.
What one item in your closet could you not live without?

A gray cashmere scarf/wrap that I bought on sale in Switzerland, I would be devastated without it!  It is warm, it is cool, it is long, it is short, it is wonderful!
What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

Black. Simple. No fuss. Classic.
Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

Chanel, Anne Fontaine, Jackie O, Audrey Hepburn
What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

When you read magazines tear out the pages of outfits you like and build a little binder.  After awhile, go through the book and I bet you that you will find a pattern in what you like.  Take it with you when you go shopping (or a few pages) and try to find styles that match what you collected, that way you won’t be persuaded to deviate.  For me quality over quantity is key as well.  A few classic pieces that you spend a little more money on in neutral colors will last you far longer than cheaper pieces in trendy colors.  I know it is not possible to always buy expensive clothes, but you would be amazed at what people donate to second-hand shops!

Sunday/Not-a-Cent-in-Lent Update

February 21st, 2010 Kristi 9 comments

navy tee (JCrew) - navy cardigan - black skirt (express, thrifted) - black boots - vintage necklace

Menu:
Breakfast: dish whole milk plain yogurt with homemade granola; cafe au lait
Lunch: My usual snacky lunch at MIL house after mass. Today I had tortilla chips with cucumber dip; salami slices with wheat thins; Cheez itz (or however you spell them!)
Dinner: pasta with red sauce; roasted asparagus; green salad; fresh bread with butter; wine

NOT A CENT IN LENT UPDATE

I have done well so far, but there were two items that I still question whether I broke my own rules.

The first is when I bought some art supplies: I bought new spray paint and glue sticks, spending less than $5. I have sold every one of my small art pieces on line and need to put some more out there, so I’m not sure if this counts as a necessity or not. To me, it was an investment and a way to make more money because they are selling like hotcakes, but maybe I’m just justifying it.

Then this weekend I took my two children to McDonalds. I didn’t eat anything because of my not a cent in lent, (and because I think it is crap food) but didn’t realize that even taking them to eat out would be breaking my own rules.

My children had done really great in school last week in a number of areas, so this was a treat for them. They have had McDonald’s no more than 6 times in their lives. I hate it, but I also don’t want them to freak out when they are older and want to eat there all the time because they were never exposed to it.

 The good  news (?) is that it gave my older child a stomach and I think we may never be tempted to go back. She said she only wanted the happy meal toy anyway, so I said next time we’ll just go to Target and she can pick out a toy and skip the food.