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On my nightstand/Sept. 11

September 11th, 2009 Kristi 5 comments

 

On my nightstand

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An Immoveable Feast by John Baxter. I pretty much ripped through this fun French read sent to me by Cherie! Thanks again Cherie.

The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan and Bar ara Pease. This is a fascinating read. I am reading it slowly so I can remember all the important knowledge it has about reading body language. I recommend this to anyone and everyone. It is a library book.

The Mandarins by Simone de Beaviour. This is a library book I haven’t had a chance to start yet.

The Elementary Particles by Michel Houellebecq. I am three-fourths of the way through this library book, inspired by either the author of Entre Nous or the author of French Women Don’t Sleep Alone who mentioned that French women argue over the latest Houellebecq book. Great book. Very intellectual and lots of sex. I’ve heard it is dismal and depressing at its conclusion however. We’ll see.

When Will There Be Good News by Kate Atkinson. A great book I will pick up and resume reading when I finish my library books.

Loop Loop and Here Kitty Kitty are books I own that I may not get to for a while.

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On my nightstand/Sept. 2

September 2nd, 2009 Kristi 11 comments

On my nightstand this week

 

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Happiness is a big stack of books by my bedside!

While waiting for a book from the library to come in I began this book:

When will there be good news? by Kate Atkinson — so far I love it, but because I own it, I set it aside for a library book that came in:

The Elementary Particles by Michel Houellebecq. Those of you in the FC group might be interested in how I came across it. Please forgive my sloppy attribution (and you can be sure if I were publishing a book I would track this fact down) but it was possibly in Entre Nous or French Women Don’t Sleep Alone (or maybe even another book — if you know which one let me know) that it mentioned this French author. So I tracked him down online and then ordered this book from my library. So far it is fantastic. I am concentrating on this exclusively since it it borrowed and has a due date. I have the dictionary by my bed to look up words in this book I am not familiar with. So far I have looked up  the word “hirstute.”

After I run out of library books I am going to start on two books that came in a big box of books from a friend:

Loop Group by Larry McMurtry (the author of Terms of Endearment)

and

Here Kitty Kitty by Jardine Libaire

FILMS

Pretty much the only thing I like better than a good book is a good movie!

I think I mentioned a few weeks ago I saw Inglorious Basterds, Tarantino’s new flick and loved it so much I’m going to mention it again!

I also rented Munich last week – an intense film that really illustrates a feeling of ongoing hopelessness surrounding the situation in the middle east and just how sad it really is. It is easy for people who live in the United States to tune it out and not realize how dramatically it impacts so many people.

I also borrowed Breathless from the library yesterday. I has previously rented it on Netflix, but had to return it because the disc was scratched. I’m looking forward to watching this classic. I think I may try to watch it tonight.

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On my nightstand this week/Aug. 17

August 17th, 2009 Kristi 10 comments

 

On my nightstand

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I finished The Historian last week. I loved it so much I hated to finish it … I also skimmed through The Gift of a Year this week, but never really got into it. I also skimmed The Art of Simple Food, but wasn’t as enamored of it as I have been in the past, (maybe just my mood).

What is left:

Stalking Susan by Julie Kramer — so far I am loving this book. (OK, not as much as I loved The Historian, but for other reasons!) It is in the same genre as a book I have started to write (with a female reporter as a heroine) and has actually inspired me to begin writing again.!!!! Which is huge!!!

The copy on my nightstand belongs to my SIL (who hasn’t read it yet) but I also ordered my own copy today from Amazon and am giving her back her copy tonight. We have book club tonight and it is her turn to pick. After I raved about the first few chapters, she decided to pick this book, so I’ve ordered my own copy and am returning hers. My other bookclub meets on Thursday. We are going to discuss Run by Ann Patchett, a pretty good book, but not one I would own. What a fun week. I love bookclubs!

When Will There Be Good News by Kate Atkinson: I will probably wait a bit on this one because I own it and I’m waiting on a book from Amazon that I’m super excited about.

This book will soon (I hope) be on my nightstand:

What French Women Know — Debra Ollivier’s new book. I bought it as a pre-order and it wasn’t supposed to come out until September, but I just got a notice that it shipped! Her book, Entre Nous, was a HUGE influence on me and my life.

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On my nightstand, in my DVD player/Weekend June 27-28

June 28th, 2009 Kristi 8 comments

 

On my nightstand and in my DVD player

I am a voracious reader and avid film watcher — or more honestly I am a complete bookworm and film freak!  During the summer I often sit outside on my patio while my kids splash in the kiddie pool and read my latest book. Rather than watch TV, I almost always prefer to curl up with a good book and a glass of wine after the kids are tucked into bed. I can usually be talked into putting down the book, however, if we have a good movie in the mail from Netflix.

In the DVD

During the past two weeks I’ve watched:

 ”Broken English” (note to all you francophiles: has a French angle and is a fun movie)

“The Reader” with Kate Winslet — an intense tear jerker worth watching

“Tron” I also somehow got talked into watching this again, but couldn’t sit through the whole thing

“Dead Man” with Johnny Depp. Love to look at the guy but got bored and went to bed

“Slumdog Millionaire” loved, loved this one

“Taken” with Liam Neeson. Intense action, great acting. If you like James Bond flicks, you’ll like this one.

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On my nightstand:

“The Book Thief” I just finished this for one of my bookclubs and loved it. It was hard to believe it was written for young adults.  It is not in the picture because I loaned it to a SIL yesterday.

“Happiness Sold Separately” by Lolly Winston. I am a few chapters into this one and enjoying it immensely. It is a great summer read I can put down, pick back up later and get right back into it. I put it down whenever one of the books I have “ordered” from the library comes in. I borrowed it from a SIL so I can take my time with it.

“Firefly Lane” by Kristin Hannah. This is a library book with a waiting list so I am concentrating on this one the most and it is also the one my second bookclub is reading. So far I love it.

“The Audacity of Hope” by Barack Obama. I’ve only read the introduction to this so far.

Two chess books I keep meaning to re-read

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Batteria da cucina

May 20th, 2009 Kristi 2 comments
Robert Arbor, chef, restaurant owner and author of Joie de Vivre

Robert Arbor, chef, restaurant owner and author of Joie de Vivre

I have a small, perfect kitchen with only the essentials. I don’t need much and I don’t want much.

Recently, my kitchen has been under construction and I have had to get back to basics in some areas. So far, I’m loving it. For instance, I haven’t had a microwave for months and have not missed it one iota. I went for weeks and weeks without my electric coffeemaker and loved using my moka pot or French press for my morning coffee. It tastes leagues better this way. I have a toaster on my counter and a Kitchen Aid mixer I keep under the sink, using it about once a week to bake biscotti and about once a year to make homemade pasta noodles. Other than that I have very basic supplies, pots and pans, wooden spoons, etc. I have modeled my kitchen after these three cooks. Note: And despite all three of them insisting on a food mill, I do not have one!

JOIE DE VIVRE by Robert Arbor

“It is not a good idea to purchase a lot of pots and pans and other equipment that you are not going to use,” Arbor writes. “There is no point in having every kind of cake accoutrement if you never bake cakes . . . I always feel sorry for newlyweds who get overwhelmed with too much kitchen stuff that they have no idea how to use. It is better to give them one good copper pot that they will use forever than a set of highly specialized chef’s knives that are just going to gather dust.

“You do not need to buy expensive items for cooking. I only suggest that you refrain from aluminum cookware because it reacts with wine, tomatoes, vinegar or anything acidic. Instead, go for stainless steel or cast iron. Pots and pans need to have thick bottoms and riveted handles, but you can find these even at the most reasonably priced houseware stores. A good, sturdy pot or pan will last for decades — and this is exactly why I don’t have any baking pans. I bake cakes about once every two or three years, and when I do, I just go to the grocery store and get a disposable cake pan. This being said, if you love to bake your grand-mere’s pound cake every Sunday morning, you should really buy yourself a nice loaf pan that will make you smile every time you look at it.”

 POTS AND PANS

“A basic family kitchen only needs three or maybe four pots. These should be made of heavy-duty stainless steel and should have lids. To cook most meals, a set of small, medium, and large — the exact size will be determined by how many people are in your family — will do the trick. The fourth pot can be an extra small pot for heating small amounts of milk, reheating leftovers, or poaching an egg. Or maybe you want a large pot — called a fait-tout — that holds about twelve quarts if you need to boil large amounts of pasta or make stock frequently.”

“. . . The basic pan supply should mirror your pot supply — you’ll need a small, a medium and a large. Pans should be made of stainless steel and lids are also very helpful.” (Arbor recommends nonstick)

“…Extra cooking vessels that you might want to buy could include a cocotte, a deep, oval casserole-type dish that can either go on the stove or in the oven. A cocotte, usually made of cast iron or enamel over cast iron, should have a heavy lid and is perfect for roasting a chicken, simmering a stew, or making a gratin. If your family enjoys a lot of hot drinks, a teakettle for boiling water looks nice and friendly sitting on the stove. If you find that you simply love to make chocolate souffle’s, then you will enjoy having a nice souffle pan. ”

HAND TOOLS

“By now you’ll guess that I don’t have a huge array of utensils for prepping and cooking. However, what I do have may surprise you. I have a three-inch paring knife, a large chef’s knife that doubles for chopping and carving, and a serrated knife for slicing bread … I have two white plastic cutting boards — one for meats and the other for everything else — at the ready. I prefer plastic plastic cutting boards rather than wood because they are much easier to clean. Also on the counter are several heavy earthenware jugs that hold just about everything else I use when I cook: about six different wooden spoons and spatulas for stirring and cooking (these will not damage my nonstick pans), a good rubber spatula for scraping, a good stainless-steel spatula (for regular pans) a stainless-steel spoon … an eight-ounce ladle .. a big perforated stainless steel spoon for skimming, a pair of tongs, and a whisk…

Arbor also suggests:

* A vegetable/food mill with fine, medium and coarse disks for preparing smooth soups, sauces and pureeing vegetables and fruits

* Small, medium, and large mixing bowls

* A fine mesh strainer for straining sauces and herbed milk

* A pair of hot mitts

* A hand-cranked can opener

* A corkscrew

*A salad spinner

* One dozen cotten kitchen towels (He prefers the white ones with red or blue stripe)

If you like to bake:

* a scale

*a set of measuring cups

* a set of measuring spoons

You can buy a rolling pin or cookie cutters, but he uses a plain wine bottle to roll dough and a water glass will cut biscuits perfectly, Arbor suggests.

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MARCELLA’S ITALIAN KITCHEN by Marcella Hazan

“The more I cook, the less equipment I want to be bothered with,” Hazan writes. “The pleasure of collecting a variety of handsome cooking implements can be irrestible, and I confess I have resisted it less often than I should. But it easily becomes an end in itself, it is extravagent, it causes clutter, and it doesn’t have much to do with good cooking.

“I cook best, I find, with a few well-made things whose properties have become so familiar that I use them as uncalculatingly as I do my hands.

“I have nothing to add to the ample information already available from so many sources on the basic pots, knives and other tools every cook needs … Here, I shall limit myself to listing a few implements useful to Italian cooks that might not be considered standard equipment in other kitchens.”

The food mill: She suggests a French or Italian model with interchangeable disks with small, medium and large holes, preferable a stainless steel model that will never warp or crack and is easier to maintain than a plastic one

The saute pan:  A 10-12 inch diamer pan with either flaring or straight sides between 2-3 inches high and a close-fitting lid. She says that’s all one would probably need to cook a majority of the recipes in her cookbook. Add a sturdy stockpot to it and you could cook nearly any Italian dish that is cooked on the stove top. The saute pan can fry, simmer, saute, stew, fricasee, make sauces, even blanch skinny vegetables like asparagus.

The pasta colander: To drain pasta of course but also any other ingredient cooked in its own moisture, such as spinach. You can place eggplant slices on its side to drain before cooking

Slotted spoons and spatulas: Self explanatory, I think

The Cheese Grater: To grate cheese efficiently she relies on the French Mouli grater, a grating drum with a handle help between two clamps.

The Peeler. Self-explanatory.

Viana La Place

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LA BELLA CUCINA by Viana La Place

“The Italian kitchen is utilitarian, in the sense that it is a workroom dedicated to the task of cooking. It is my opinion that the simpler the kitchen looks, the better the food. And Italian kitchens shine. Appliances look as if they have never been used, since no residue from cooking ever remains. Starting with the floor and working one’s way up to the ceiling, the Italian kitchen must be spotless.

“In my kitchen in the Salento, I am blessed with what I consider to be one of the most beautiful floors I’ve ever seen. The large terrazzo floor tiles are flecked with tiny chips of marble in pale pistachio green and white … In the center of the kitchen is a simple wooden table with a white marble top worn to a lovely dull luster and  a set of wooden chairs painted blue. Windows that open to the breezes wrap around the kitchen — and outside I can almost touch the old-fashioned pink roses and little yellow plums that grown in the garden below. French doors lead out to a terrace in back that faces other gardens and other villas.”

And this is what La Place found in the pantry:

* Colanders in every size for draining pasta

* A hand-cranked food mill with three size disks

* Several cheese graters

* An assortment of formaggiere — little glass serving pieces with hinged lids for holding the freshly grated cheese placed on the table at almost every meal

* Espresso pots (Mokas). Ones for three cups, six cups, nine cups and twelve cups.

* An old hand-cranked coffee grinder

* Cups in a variety of sizes: tiny cups for espresso, large cups for caffe latte, and and assortment of other sizes for the occasional cup of tea or broth

* Everyday wineglasses: stemless, sturdy and reliable, and diminutive glasses for liqueurs, digestivi and aperativei; a few fancier wineglasses, although most of the fancy wineglasses are in the dining room credenza, she says.

* Taller, but not too tall, glasses for homemade lemonade or cold tea

*Bowls of many sizes. Shallow bowls for tossing pasta and sauce, and a succession of bowls in decreasing sizes for salad making, cooked vegetables, for olives and individual shallow bowls for erving pasta.

* You will always find at least one enormous pot for boiling pasta for a crowd, as well as a variety of pots in various sizes for other uses.

* A frying pan

*Earthenware casserole dishes of various sizes and always a very large rectangular baking dish for making pasta al forno or lasagne

* Baskets for bread, carafes and pitchers for wine and water, cruets for olive oil and vinegar

* A big box of sea salt is always present and salt is placed on the table in very small salt dishes accompanied by equally small spoons

*A pepper mill

*Spoons: tiny spoons for espresso, medium size spoons for general use and gigantic soup spoons, much larger than the ones we use in America for soup. Many wooden spoons for cooking

* Knives. especially popular and useful are the plastic handled serrated knives one buys at the outdoor markets

*In terms of small utensils, you’ll find a meat pounder; a straight-sided pastry wheel for cutting pasta; a deep, slotted spoon for scooping stuffed pasta out of boiling water; and a thin, long rolling pin without ball bearings for rolling out pasta.

“It sounds like a lot of equipment,” La Place writes, “But it all fits very neatly in the medium-size pantry in the kitchen. The tools are basic, the ingredients simple, yet the results are profoundly good.”

La Dolce Vita Authors I love

May 16th, 2009 Kristi 1 comment

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If you want ideas on living the sweet life, please check out one of my favorite Italian American authors,  Raeleen D’Agostino Mautner, author of Living La Dolce Vita.

You can also find inspiration on her blog: http://www.raeleenmautner.blogspot.com/

 Also, check out her musings on her other website:

http://dolcevitaseminars.com/_wsn/page7.html

Another Italian-American author I absolutely adore is Adriana Trigiani. Her website is http://www.adrianatrigiani.com/

I love everything she’s ever written. When she heard I was reading her latest book at my bookclub she asked if she could call in to chat with us. It was great talking to her. When I answered the phone that night, she said, “Hey baby, how’s it going?”

What’s not to love?

They are filming a movie this summer based on her first book, Big Stone Gap, and she invited us to be extras. Not sure if we’ll make the road trip, but the offer was sweet.

Have a great weekend.

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Are Italians naturally frugal?

February 29th, 2008 Kristi No comments

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“All the energy Americans devote to the accumulation and management of money, the hours spent thinking about how to amass it, organize it, invest it, will it, spend it, keep it, share it or not share it. Romans instead devote their energy to other things — to looking well, eating well, loving well and spending time with their families.” — Alan Epstein, As the Romans Do 

What is frugal? It’s not being cheap. It’s not being stingy. It’s not being greedy.

It is a question of selection. It is a question of spending money wisely.

As Raeleen D’Agostino Mautner  writes in Living La Dolce Vita, Italians believe in respecting and taking care of the things they have and not wasting things. They believe it is very important to save money, as well.

Of her Italian grandmother she writes, “She disdained extravagances and buying possessions as status symbols. If something was still in working order, it was unthinkable to replace it just to have a newer model. When we ate at her house and didn’t use our paper napkins, those napkins would be folded and saved for the next time . . . Nonna Angela taught me that buying too many things is like taking your money and throwing it in the wastebasket. ‘Cluttering your house with possessions only clutters your mind,’ she would say.”

 In Simple Living by Jose Hobday, the author describes frugality in this way:

“Frugality doesn’t mean not spending. Frugality means a thoughtful economy. We’re frugal if we use our time well. We’re frugal if we cook with healthy materials. Frugality and simplicty or poverty of spirit all say limit, don’t waste.

“Stinginess is just greed and usually clutters our lives. Frugality is a careful examination of the complexities of buying and selling and deciding how to remain free in this complex transaction . . .

She also speaks about living simply to enjoy small, everyday pleasures.

“Freedom comes to both body and mind in the form of time. When we eat, how much we eat, the time we devote to eating and preparing food becomes important … I guarantee you, if you eat a little less and a little less often, you will eat with more relish both for your soul and body. Mild hunger awakens taste buds and our appreciation grows.”

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Bringing Italy home

February 28th, 2008 Kristi No comments

Somewhere along the line, after moving constantly in search of the perfect large American city to live in, I realized that it didn’t matter where I lived. What mattered was the environment and lifestyle I created wherever I was. So, although I would love to live in Europe someday, specifically Italy, I know I can embrace much of the Italian lifestyle wherever I live.

I recently re-read Frances Mayes Bringing Tuscany Home and here are some inspiring passages I copied. (I have a journal I use to record words, sentences, pages, of inspiration from what I read. I’ve read that Sophia Loren does the same).

 Here’s Mayes:

“From the beginning, we began to bring Tuscany home. Pillows. Parmigiano … Wine. Duvet covers . . . Then we began to bring home something more lasting — a mind-set, a way of being in the world.”

“We have a tribe of Italian friends … who show us by example, the pleasure of living everyday life in this bellissimo landscape. The first revelation from these friends — and the most influential — center on home and friends and the table, the focus of celebration.

“Tuscans passionately love whatever plot of terra they live on and cultivate every inch with flowers and vegetables. They thrive on their local markets … Food, in Italy, is not cult but culture.

 ”In all my years in Italy, I’ve never once heard food connected to guilt. The pleasure of eating and drinking are never tortured into pyschological struggles.”

 ”We have always been astonished at how easily friends in Italy seem to produce a dinner for 10. Partly that’s because Italian food is simple. Few ingredients comprise each dish and the ingredients are top quality.”

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What is La Bella Figura?

December 16th, 2007 Kristi No comments

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“Their suits, their shirts, their ties, their shoes, their haircuts, even their fingernails were all beyond perfection … bella figura … no American businessman without Italian blood would lavish the time, money and attention that were necessary to look the way they did. To present a bella figura to the world, no matter what was going on inside, was an Italian tradition that reached from the nobility to the peasants.” — Judith Krantz writing in The Lovers. 

La bella figura roughly translated means cutting a beautiful figure, an Italian philosophy that means putting careful thought into the face you present to the world by taking pride in one’s appearance from shiny, clean hair to real jewelry and freshly polished shoes.

To Italians, “presenting yourself well in thought, word and deed is a matter of personal dignity,” writes Raeleen D’Agostino Mautner in “Living La Dolce Vita.”

The foreign visitor to Italy is typically amazed to observe how polished the men and women of the bel paese look, how good they appear to feel about themselves, and how graciously they interact with one another. Italian life is undeniable lived with a constant eye toward aesthetic beauty, dignity and civility. Learning to enhance the body and mind one is born with is more important than having been endowed with genetic perfection,” she writes.

To me, the Italian philosophy of La Bella Figura essentially boils down to always putting your best foot forward, not only physically but in everyway you present yourself to the world.

Stylewise,  it doesn’t mean spending thousands of dollars on clothing, makeup and jewelry. What it does mean to me is being selective, purchasing timeless, classic styles and choosing quality over quantity.It is philosophy that “less is more” – a belief not very common in the American consumer society. But in some European countries that we admire for the pleasure they take in creating a quality life, it is par for the course.

In the style bible, Simple Isn’t Easy, by Olivia Goldsmith and Amy Fine Collins, a famous French architect is quoted saying “American closets shock me. So much, too much. No one can dress well with so many clothes.”

In the same book, shoe designer Manolo Blahnik is quoted saying “It is a question of selection, to choose less. That is something Americans do not understand. They think that more is better.”

 So, yes, I may own a gorgeous purse, but it’s one of only two purses in my closet.Again: it’s a question of choosing less not more. For me less is more means I would rather scrimp and save my money to buy a beautifully cut pairs of jeans that flatter me and will give me years of wear.And sure living this way most likely means delaying instant gratification.

Saving money to buy what you want is not something we are used to in these days of instant credit, mass mailing of credit card approvals and the ability to purchase almost anything we might desire online in the privacy of our own home.What it will mean is an increased satisfaction and appreciation for the things we do own and the desire to care for them so they will last and give us as much pleasure for as long as possible.











What is it about those Italian women? You know the ones I’m talking about: beautiful, sexy, dressed to the nines just to take the kids to the park. They have a certain something that is indefinable. It is in the way they dress, the way they prepare their meals, the way they spend their leisure time.

It is because they know the importance of la bella figura. Roughly translated from Italian, it means putting you best foot forward in everything you do. It means cutting a beautiful figura. The opposite of la bella figura is la brutta figura, which is what someone might say about the falling down drunken guy at the party or the super tackily dressed woman at church. It means ugly figure.

La bella figura is much more than your appearance. It goes much deeper than that. It is about how you act. It is about how you treat others. It is about how you care for yourself, your home and your family. Living a life in line with la bella figura doesn’t take money. In fact, it is more about how to have class without a lot of money. Many guys who aspire to be a PUA are actually pursuing the La Bella Figura Lifestyle.

Someone who exudes la bella figura will have clean, pressed clothes and be well groomed. They will not be rude or sloppy. Their fingernails will be impeccably groomed. Their hair shiny and clean and their shoes will be polished. They will not have stray threads hanging from their suit hems. They will not be driving a car in need of the car wash.

La bella figura means driving that 15 year old car and meticulously cleaning it and caring for it. It means keeping your belongings in good repair. It means taking time to clean your house and not cluttering it up with meaningless objects.

When you focus all your spare energy, time and money on the things that bring you the most amount of pleasure, then you are truly living a life in line with la bella figura. The best part about it is that you don’t have to be Italian to do so. You just have to think like an Italian.

Italian children are raised to present la bella figura in whatever they do. From the time they are small and are groomed perfectly to attend church or school, they know that appearances count. They count because it is the first thing people judge about you. That first impression does matter. Appearances are also important because when you take the time to look nice, you are showing that you care about yourself. When you care enough to look good, it shows you have good healthy self esteem. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence.

In addition, dressing nice also shows respect for others. If you invite people over for dinner and greet them in flip flops, baggy sweats and a stained shirt, it is really disrespectful to them. The same if you dress sloppy to go to church or even to the market. By dressing nicely and being well groomed, you show respect for everyone in your world.

Having la bella figura means presenting yourself in the best light possible in all your interactions.