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Chic Friends Spring Edition

May 27th, 2010 Kristi 16 comments

 Here is the Chic Friends: Spring Edition. Thank you so much to everyone who participated. These chic friends posts are my favorite. I love seeing all the wonderful outfits and especially love all the terrific advice and insight. A special thanks to Euro Chic for helping me with the questions. You can find links to Euro Chic and Christine from The Red Geranium and Cherie from Renaissance Garden under the inspiration tab to the right.

CHRISTINE

Christine

NOTE ON PHOTOS:
In my photos the 1st one is of me on my roofdeck drinking coffee.  I was on my way to a lunch at a friend’s new house that afternoon. I wore a white ruffle neck shirt from J.Crew outlet, consignment shop jeans, realllllly old cork wedge sandals, Urban Outfitters sunglasses and a scarf.  My coffee mug is from Anthropologie.

The 2nd picture is of me in my kitchen wearing a consignment Banana Republic silk shirt, $12 Forever 21 skinny jeans and consignment Calvin Klein wedges that I stretched to perfection with shoe stretch spray.

What is your biggest fashion indulgence or dream item to own if money weren’t an issue?

A Chanel quilted purse and a Cartier “Love” bracelet.

 What is your biggest fashion challenge in getting dressed each day?

I definitely have too many clothes.  I think I need Clinton and Stacy from that TV show to come over, because I have not yet found the willpower to truly purge my closet.
 
What fashion trend(s), during your lifetime have you disliked the most (and did you follow that trend anyway just to fit in?)?

Harem pants, bleach splashed/torn jeans, sweatpants with words on your bum, visible thongs, trucker hats, Crocs, Ed Hardy shirts, and the list could go on for days!

Quick note about Crocs— I must admit I do have a pair of ballet-flat style Crocs that were a gift from my mom and I use them for working outdoors only! Right now they are at my parent’s house, however, since at the moment I live in an apartment in the city and no longer have anywhere to garden/work outside.  I do think they are acceptable for gardening outside (which I love), washing your car or doing other cleaning activities in your yard since they have grippy soles and can be rinsed easily.  The ballet flat style is MUCH cuter than the clog style, but I still would never wear them outside of my backyard.
 
Where do you find your fashion inspiration?

Magazines, blogs/websites, walking down the street…. everywhere really!
 
What is the one essential item you think belongs in every stylish woman’s closet?

A trenchcoat/really fabulous coat.  If you have to run out to the store you could be in pajamas underneath and nobody would know!  On the outside you would still look as chic as Audrey Hepburn!
 
What advice would you give others who are trying to determine their own style?

If you don’t feel comfortable wearing it—its not for you.
 
 

CHERIE 

Cherie

What is your biggest fashion indulgence or dream item to own if money weren’t an issue?

I would love to have real diamond stud earrings rather than the CZs I’ve worn for years.  I’m a classic and never get tired of that look.

 What is your biggest fashion challenge in getting dressed each day?

I live on a farm  where I spend a great deal of time alone and I find myself just reaching for the same tired outfits every day – jeans and a t-shirt.  I try to remind myself that I’m dressing for me and that I should not be afraid to wear something a little nicer and to throw on some accessories as well.
 

What fashion trend(s), during your lifetime have you disliked the most (and did you follow that trend anyway just to fit in?)?

The trend I tried and hated on myself was the preppy look of the 80s.  I’m a feminine classic and that look was too harsh and boyish for me.  Thankfully, I didn’t spend too much time or money on that trend.  I think the best think for someone to do is purchase one or two items from a trend just to see how it works for you, rather than completely investing in a trend that might not be appropriate.
 

Where do you find your fashion inspiration?

I’m a people watcher and love to go to upscale dining and shopping areas to see what’s being worn and to get ideas to try. 
 

What is the one essential item you think belongs in every stylish woman’s closet?

I think a good, winter dress coat is essential.  I’ve seen so many lovely ladies ruin their look by throwing a casual jacket over a dressy outfit.  A coat that is classic yet suits a woman’s personality will last for many, many years.  I also think a well-fitted bra should also be an essential, as I’ve seen a great outfit look bad without a proper foundation.

What advice would you give others who are trying to determine their own style?

Consider your lifestyle and your physical attributes.  And what makes you feel comfortable.

EURO CHIC

Euro Chic

Outfit selected: This is pretty standard for me in the Spring as a pencil skirt and tee are both cool and comfortable while still being feminine and work appropriate. 
 

What is your biggest fashion indulgence or dream item to own if money weren’t an issue?

A genuine Jean Schlumberger White Enamel Bangle (and if $27,000 is ever pocket change I’ll take a green one too!)

What is your biggest fashion challenge in getting dressed each day?

 This changes almost from year to year, but these days the biggest challenge for me is that I have moved from the Southern US to New England and am having to learn to dress for a different climate than the one I grew up in. There are many things that I don’t have that I could really use (a pair of wellies, please!) and while I’m slowly building a more practical wardrobe for my new lifestyle as I can afford to do so it can be rather challenging to come up with ways to make do with what I have available right now and be comfortable, appropriate and still look and feel pulled together.
 

What fashion trend(s), during your lifetime have you disliked the most (and did you follow that trend anyway just to fit in?)?

The entire 1980’s and early 90’s!  I hated grunge especially and never stooped to that level.  I also hated stirrup pants but wore them because my mother made me. I did do splatter paint, neon shoestring barrettes, tight rolled pants w/penny loafers and Arizona jackets all to fit in.
 

Where do you find your fashion inspiration? 

 Jackie Onassis, Audrey Hepburn, old movies, the streets of Boston and ads from favorite stores.  I actually have a file on my computer where I save images from store websites and will recreate similar outfits based on what I have in my closet.
 

What is the one essential item you think belongs in every stylish woman’s closet?

A perfect white tee.  To me, the white tee is even more versatile than the LBD.  You can wear it with pretty much anything, dress it up or down…take it to a religious ceremony with a black skirt, pumps and pearls, a Friday night dinner with jeans, boots, a black blazer and lots of chain necklaces, a casual Sunday BBQ w/capris, flats sandals and simple bangle, or a business meeting with your black skirt, blazer, heels and pearls…
 

What advice would you give others who are trying to determine their own style?

Pay attention…look at what other women are wearing and determine what you like/dislike, check out store websites, catalogues and fashion magazines and save/rip out things you like. It helps to have a style icon (or two) who’s clothes and overall impression speaks to you.  Also, don’t expect to always get it right or for a miraculous transformation to happen overnight.  Personal style takes time to develop and is evolutionary.   And most of all, follow your instinct…if something doesn’t make you feel good and confident then don’t wear it and never let what other people say about your style cause you to sway.  Always, always be true to yourself.

ROBIN

Robin

This is my crop trench coat that I picked up from H&M. I saw a pic online of a woman in Paris who had on one in camel and fell in love!  You can roll up the sleeves and the sleeves are 3/4. So I love it for Spring and cool summer nights.  In most of the pics the shirt I have on is from J.Crew. I saw it online when it was regular price $70 or more. I decided that I would wait a while to see if I really could not live without it and then to my surprise it went on sale and I purchased it for $24.99. I have on my beloved Chanel bag that was given to me by my grandmother.  She is the smallest size (east west). 

What is your biggest fashion indulgence or dream item to own if money weren’t an issue?

It would most likely be a Hermes Kelly bag in black.  I love the timeless style of the bag and feel that I would not need another bag again!

What is your biggest fashion challenge in getting dressed each day?

 I would say my biggest fashion challenge would be adding some spice to my everyday uniform.  I love to wear a black or white t-shirt and jeans. 

What fashion trend(s), during your lifetime have you disliked the most (and did you follow that trend anyway just to fit in?)?

I never got into the neon colors and I don’t really care for the new shoulder pad trend that is in. It looks great on some people but I don’t think it would suit me at all.

Where do you find your fashion inspiration?

I love Sophia Copolla, Nicole Ritchie, Miroslava Duma, Giovanna Battaglia, and Emmanuelle Alt.  I also love to read fashion blogs like Garance Dore, The Satorialist, and Fabulous Florida Mommy.

What is the one essential item you think belongs in every stylish woman’s closet?

a nice bag.  I think a nice purse or accessories can make a boring outfit pop!  It does not have to be a very expensive handbag but I love it when I see people wear a basic white tee and jeans with a fabulous bag! (As you can see I love handbags)

What advice would you give others who are trying to determine their own style?

My advice would be to find inspiration on the internet and magazines.  Blogs are an excellent resource as you can see people who have different body types and get ideas of how to put clothing pieces together.  I also think it is important to find out what works for your body and what makes you feel special and go with that! 

LARIA

(Pink Pashmina photo):
My pink pashmina from Montmartre is soft, silky and dresses up my Springtime “uniform” of fitted t-shirt & skirt outfits.


 
(Brown polka dot dress photo):
Wrap dresses and knee boots are my perfect easy transitional weather pieces!
 

 
What is your biggest fashion indulgence or dream item to own if money weren’t an issue?

Biggest indulgence: handbags!
Dream Item: a Chanel suit
 
What is your biggest fashion challenge in getting dressed each day?

Trying to look professional but not staid!

What fashion trend(s), during your lifetime have you disliked the most (and did you follow that trend anyway just to fit in?)?

I would say the MC Hammer harem pants and jackets with heavy shoulder pads – but I only dislike them on me as my figure is hourglass-y. They can look quite avant garde on the right woman!

Where do you find your fashion inspiration?

On people I see on the street on their way to work – everyday I see a detail that is beautiful and interesting that enlivens their conservative dress, such as a bright orange bead bracelet, or lime green slingback shoes, or cherry red lipstick…
And of course, from chic bloggers such as the author of this one!

What is the one essential item you think belongs in every stylish woman’s closet?

Only one? Oh dear…I would say hot knee boots! Or a great investment bag.

What advice would you give others who are trying to determine their own style?

Stay true to your personality and tastes, and dress to flatter your own unique and beautiful figure – if you choose items that make you feel good, it will show!
(And my gorgeous Mum would add – always wear lipstick!)

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Weekend/On my nightstand

May 17th, 2010 Kristi 2 comments

REMINDER: PLEASE let me know if you would like to participate in the Chic Friends Spring Edition.

email me at mammaitaliana23@gmail.com

Thanks!

JCrew Top - Levis - Urban Outfitters Sandals - Vintage Choker

 

I’m happy to report that I had to change out of my jeans in the afternoon and put on a black jersey skirt for my Sunday dinner guests because it was soooo hot! Yea. It is about time.

We had roast (the fail proof roast recipe is in my book); potatoes, carrots, salad, rolls and Dairy Queen for dessert. Oh, and of course, wine!

After church and between dinner, I attended a writer’s workshop and got some good resources for finding an agent and getting published (my fiction novel).

On My Nightstand:

On My Nightstand:

The God of Small Things One of my book clubs picked this. I’m about halfway into it, though I think I may have read it in the past. It is good, but not something I can’t wait to get back to every night.

Reading Lolita in Tehran — A thrift store buy I have just barely begun — on the back burner for now. So far, it seems like it is going to be really good.

Self-Editing for Fiction Writers — I bought this on the recommendation from Phyllis Bourne (see side bar) who is a published author. I read the first chapter but am saving the rest for when the first draft of my novel is complete.

The Nautical Chart by Arturo Perez-Reverte — I adore this author and snatched this up at the thrift store. Also in a holding pattern until the library books and book club books are read. I can’t complain — I love having TOO MANY good books waiting beside my bedside to read!

My Spanish Book — I realized that outside my normal life, I have room for one great passion — This year it is completing my novel. Next year will be studying Spanish again. I am the type of person who becomes so immersed in what they are doing I have a hard time spreading myself out.

This is why I quit my job as a newspaper reporter when I had kids. As a reporter, I was obsessed! It consumed my entire life. When I had children, that passion shifted to them. There was no room for both. A friend who knew me well told me she wasn’t surprised that I had to quit my job because she knew me as having so much passion for what I did that she couldn’t imagine me doing both.

MY DVD: has been neglected. I don’t watch very many movies when it is summer and so nice out.

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Friday

May 15th, 2010 Kristi 5 comments

 

This is the shirt I got at the switch and ditch. I’ve been craving a denim shirt for quite some time now. I like this one a lot except for two things: I need to wash it about 100 times to get it super soft and pliable and then also it is a bit short. It was my friend Jen’s. She’s just a little thing so when I wear it, if I raise my hands above my head — watch out — there is flesh showing. Other than that, I really like the color denim and the snaps — I have wanted my denim shirt to have snaps!

And oh am I loving my Frye boots. So comfortable!

Menu:
Breakfast: small dish whole milk plain yogurt; cafe au lait
Lunch: romaine salad with lemon juice, olive oil, salt, gorgonzola crumbles; and an apple
Dinner: Tuna that my Dad caught in Mexico. I just broil it with sea salt and olive oil, potatoes au gratin; romaine salad; wine

PS Please let me know if you want to participate in the next Chic Friends posting (details in previous post) Would love to see a few more people pariticipate. Thanks.

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Chic Friends: Spring Edition Casting Call

May 13th, 2010 Kristi 1 comment

CHIC FRIENDS II: Spring Edition

Casting Call

As many of you know, my favorite post this past year (yes today has been one year of regular posting) was the Chic Friends post. It was fantastic to “meet” so many of my readers and fellow bloggers, post pictures of them and hear their thoughts on style.

I want to do a spring edition and hope you will participate. You can be a regular reader, blogger, anything … would love to hear from you.

What I need is an email expressing your interest and then later on I’ll give you details about submitting a photo and answering a few short questions.

See the first post on Chic Friends to get an idea.

http://labellafigura.net/chic-friends/

If you are interested, please email me at: mammaitaliana23@gmail.com

PS Because it is the Spring Edition, anyone who participated in the winter one, please feel free to participate again — this time we will focus on (obviously) spring outfits instead of winter ones. Thanks!

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BIG THANK YOU!

February 28th, 2010 Kristi 4 comments

I just wanted to say a special thank you to the women who participated in the Chic Friends posting. Let me tell you, it takes some courage to have your picture posted online. It took me months to show my face on this blog. I kept hiding it behind the camera …. So a big thank you to all those women, especially those who have never had their photos posted on a blog before. They all have different looks and styles, but I know you will agree that they are all beautiful and chic! I know I learned so much from their style advice and insight and hope you did too.

In a few months, I’m going to have a second round of this post and hope others will want to join in next time.

Anyway, thanks again all you lovely ladies!

Chic Friends

February 25th, 2010 Kristi 14 comments

 
 
 
 This has got to be my all-time favorite post since I began blogging last year. I feel so lucky to have all these chic women as readers of my blog. I constantly benefit from their lazer sharp insight into style and wardrobe issues, not to mention other advice in general and now I can share their tips with you. Enjoy! I know I sure did. Thank you so much for participating everyone!  PS You can find the links to all the people who are also bloggers on the right hand side under “inspiration.”
 

 

 
 
 AAONCE —————————————————————————————————————————–

Aaonce

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I don’t really have a “go to” outfit, but I do have a capsule wardrobe and each piece represented in this picture (as well as other items in my closet) are kept because they are reliable. I wear a lot of black, and I love playing with textures. This outfit is composed of a leather pencil skirt, a black corduroy jacket (with grosgrain ribbon around the edges), cashmere crew neck blouse, a multi-strand pearl necklace, wool hat (It is cold outside), textured tights (difficult to see in this picture) and tall leather black boots.

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

I know that this is kind of cheating, but really I can’t live without my accessories. I have a pretty restrictive color palette (mostly black, navy and gray) so handbags, scarves, shoes/boots, jewelry and the like are called upon to give each outfit some pizzazz and/or color. If I had to choose ONE thing, this week I am totally loving my black leather tall boots by Diane Von Furstenberg, they seem to give a little spice to everything from jeans to pencil skirts.

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

Dramatic/Classic? My aesthetic requires everything I own to be classic, but also have that little something extra that makes it stand out (although for me standing out is done in more of a whisper than a roar).

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

I am inspired by the world around me, people I know/meet, and things I read (blogs and magazines included in that list). I don’t have a style icon, but I know what I like, what works for me, and how I want to present myself.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

Style encompasses a lot of things: your personality, your past/present/future (and what you want to reveal about those things) and of course, what you actually like (your taste). I think magazines, books and  blogs are great guides in helping you express who you are, but that is all they are-guides. Style is innately personal, its your expression. Friends can give a thumbs up or down on the execution of an outfit, but they can’t help you find your “voice” and that voice is the basis of any style. My advice is get to know yourself first, and then dress to express that. Style isn’t about wearing certain clothing items. It is only an expression of who you are.

NANCY from Life is Sweet ——————————————————————————————————-

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

Pairing a good quality tee, with a great fitting pair of jeans is a simple, easy look and is very easy to dress up or down. Or you can add a great scarf, or interesting jewelry, or a blazer, vest, or sweater. AND it’s oh-so comfortable!

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

anything with 3/4 sleeves – 3/4 sleeves are not only classicly chic, they are also universally flattering on every body type.

 What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 ”CCC – classic casual chic”

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

the classic icons like coco, jackie, Vogue

 What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

Educate yourself about your body type, what colors work well for you (fashion, hair, makeup), age-appropriateness of fashion choices, image/body concerns, etc. If you feel overwhelmed by all these choices, find a good image / fashion consultant to help you – it will be money saved in the long run. And lastly, project confidence – that’s the most important ’style’ tip I can give anyone.

JENNIFER from The Daily Connoisseur ————————————————————————————

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

 I am in my second trimester of pregnancy so I need clothes that are both comfortable and fashionable- with room to grow!  I love the combination of a tunic and leggings (both by A Pea in the Pod) because I can move throughout my day with ease.  Ditto for my grey patent leather ballet flats (by London Sole).  These shoes are so comfortable and support my aching back.

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

 My black velvet blazer by J. Crew

 What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 Classic and minimalistic

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

 Marion Cotillard and Penelope Cruz- Those ladies wear their clothes sooooo well…

 What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

 Keep it simple- don’t dress to impress anyone but yourself.  (But having said that, you yourself should have incredibly high standards ;)

Patricia———————————————————————————————————————————

 

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

The reason I chose this outfit is it’s versatility.

I bought it for a casual New Years Eve party this year.

I am partial to little black dresses and have several of different styles. This one is different in that it is black and white. The top is a little sheer so it gives it a little dash of something. I like the way it hangs…flouncy under my knee, which is a very nice style on me.

The dress can be worn all seasons and dressed up or down with a sweater or pashima and different shoes or even boots, and either nude or black hose.

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

The item in my closet I could not live without is my black pencil skirt. I can wear it anywhere, anytime, with anything!

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

I would describe my style as classic elegant feminine.

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

My style icon/fashion inspiration is Mrs. Herrera (the mother) and Grace Kelly. Mrs. Herrera was always feminine and elegant, as was Princess Grace.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

For others who are looking to find their own style, I would suggest paying attention to what you’ve gravitated toward in your formulative years. Practically since the day I was born I was feminine and meticulous. Although in my teen years and 20s I dressed more utilitarian, my mid-life epiphany brought me back to my inner self.

TINE from The Red Geranium————————————————————————————————–

Tine

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I picked this outfit because I wanted to be comfortable and warm, yet also chic.  I wore this when my boyfriend and I went up to his family’s beach house in New Hampshire for a weekend getaway.  It was chilly up north which is why I chose the knit grey sweater, but I still wanted to look chic so I wore it with skinny jeans and mid-calf black flat boots.  It was a gorgeous sunny weekend, so I had to add the over sized sunglasses too!

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

This is a tough question!! I think for the fall/winter my must-have item would be my Dolce Vita black leather knee high boots with a 3″ stacked heed.  These totally can transform an outfit and they go great with tights and a skirt or over skinny jeans.  I even can wear them to work.

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 Classic, yet chic.

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

Audrey Hepburn and Ashley Olsen

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

You need to be 100% comfortable in your skin AND your clothes.  If I wear something that I’m not comfortable with, I feel “off” all day.  If you are interested in a certain trend or style, but are not sure how it will suit you, start off slow and find how you can make it work for you.  For example, I love skinny jeans, but I am much more confident and comfortable wearing them with knee high boots and a chunky sweater than with a tight shirt and ballet flats. 

PHYLLIS  from Phyllis Bourne, romance author————————————————————————-

   

Phyllis

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I spotted this outfit on a display in Nordstrom and immediately fell in love with it.   At the time, brown was my least favorite color.  It’s hard to explain, but it just looked and felt like me. 

I wear it in situations where I know I have to be “on”.  It never fails to give me a little confidence boost.

What one item in your closet could you not live without?

White Target Merona Ultimate V-neck t-shirt

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

Creative, conservative

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

Sade.  Her style: red lipstick, hoop earrings, low ponytail and understated clothes haven’t changed in over twenty-five years.   Yet, she looks timeless, ageless and always on point.

Essence magazine did a special double cover on her back March 2001.  On the front of the magazine was a then-recent shot of her in 2001, and the back cover featured a 1984 shot.  She looked exactly the same. 

Her new album was released this month.  It’s nearly March 2010, and she still looks likes she hasn’t aged a day since 1984.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

 Don’t be afraid to experiment with clothes, make-up and accessories.

Cherie from Renaissance Garden————————————————————————————————

Cherie

 

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

I have on an Ann Taylor sweater, black slacks, black ankle boots with kitten heels, and large hoop earrings in bronze.  I typically wear this type of outfit to church, and casual lunches or meetings.

What one item in your closet could you not live without? 

My black slacks.  They go with almost everything and fit into my casual lifestyle.
What one or two words would you use to describe your style? 

Feminine classic.  I like clean lines, solid colors, with a little bit of a feminine flourish.

Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

I would say the usual, Audry Hepburn, Grace Kelly.  More modern would be Jennifer Anniston, Diane Lane.
What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style? 

I think it’s important to be comfortable in the clothes you wear.  In the past I would buy items that were considered “classic,” things “every woman should own,” such as white button-down shirts.  I finally realized those kind of classics don’t work on me.  I’ve also learned to skip most trendy items.

Beth ————————————————————————————————————————————–

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

 This is a typical winter work outfit for me.  It’s cold in eastern Washington!  But the temperature in my office can fluctuate, so layers are important.  You can’t see the fishnet hose or the light herringbone pattern on the skirt but I like to add varieties of subtle patterns or textures.

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

 A black boatneck t-shirt exactly like the white one in the photo.  Perfect length, not clingy, perfect fabric weight.  Also, for the summer, a tan full skirt with embroidered white polka dots.  Classic but not plain — I love to wear it with a navy/white striped nautical t-shirt.

What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 Classic separates, ease of care AND wear, always a scarf.

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

 Lauren Hutton and Lauren Graham – they are different but similar in their quirky treatments of classic pieces and shapes.

 What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

 LISTEN when someone says “I love that on you!” or “What a terrific color!”  But if you love it  – even if no one says it out loud — wear it often and with great affection for the pieces that make you happy.

FIONA from La Vie en Fifi———————————————————————————————————–

  Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it? This outfit is indicative of what I wear every day.  Fitting jeans, high heels or cute flats and something nice on top.  I used to work in an office and wore suits and corporate-ish separates.  Now I work full time in the footwear retail store that my husband and I own.  A lot of what we stock and the customers that shop with us are more casual, not so city.  When going to work I always choose a pair of shoes which are current, so this dictates what I wear a little.

 What one item in your closet could you not live without?

 The perfect pair of jeans

 What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

 I would love to portray ‘relaxed chic’ with my style.

 Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

 People I see through work on a regular basis (whether they are customers or sales representatives), real peoples’ blogs, movies and tv programmes (these are great for seeing ‘everyday’ outfits which are styled up to give inspiration) and personal style books.  Celebrity photos ‘off-duty’ are useful too.

What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

Know what you feel more comfortable in (not just physically either).  For me it’s neutral mid-tone colours, clean lines and simple shapes which are fitting but not too tight.

I heard once ages ago that the colour of your hair, skin and eyes is a good starting point for choosing clothing colours.  My hair is caramel/beige/blonde, eyes are grey/blue and skin tone pale-ish pink/yellow (neutral).  So I often look for these colours to wear and do get compliments on them.

Find celebrities who have the same colouring as you and look at photos of them to see if there is a new colour/colour combination you could try.  I read Jennifer Aniston is a ‘Soft Summer’ like I am so saw she looks good in grey and some greens.  Whenever I wear soft greens my husband compliments me.

Take photos of your outfits in the mirror each day (full-length if possible).  Even if no one else sees them they are very useful.  Keep them all.  It’s only looking back when you have built up a few that you get a clear idea of better outfits than others.  The challenge is to find out why and build on that (proportions, colours, accessories).

Andi from Misadventures with Andi———————————————————————————————

Tell me a little bit about this outfit and why you chose it?

When I am carrying a little extra weight I tend to wear more skirts and dresses than usual.  85% of my clothes are black-gray-white.  I love wearing boots with skirts and dresses in winter, so comfortable.  It is cold in my office, so I always dress in layers or sweaters to keep warm.
What one item in your closet could you not live without?

A gray cashmere scarf/wrap that I bought on sale in Switzerland, I would be devastated without it!  It is warm, it is cool, it is long, it is short, it is wonderful!
What one or two words would you use to describe your style?

Black. Simple. No fuss. Classic.
Who are your style icons/fashion inspirations?

Chanel, Anne Fontaine, Jackie O, Audrey Hepburn
What bit of advice would you like to give others about finding their own style?

When you read magazines tear out the pages of outfits you like and build a little binder.  After awhile, go through the book and I bet you that you will find a pattern in what you like.  Take it with you when you go shopping (or a few pages) and try to find styles that match what you collected, that way you won’t be persuaded to deviate.  For me quality over quantity is key as well.  A few classic pieces that you spend a little more money on in neutral colors will last you far longer than cheaper pieces in trendy colors.  I know it is not possible to always buy expensive clothes, but you would be amazed at what people donate to second-hand shops!











What is it about those Italian women? You know the ones I’m talking about: beautiful, sexy, dressed to the nines just to take the kids to the park. They have a certain something that is indefinable. It is in the way they dress, the way they prepare their meals, the way they spend their leisure time.

It is because they know the importance of la bella figura. Roughly translated from Italian, it means putting you best foot forward in everything you do. It means cutting a beautiful figura. The opposite of la bella figura is la brutta figura, which is what someone might say about the falling down drunken guy at the party or the super tackily dressed woman at church. It means ugly figure.

La bella figura is much more than your appearance. It goes much deeper than that. It is about how you act. It is about how you treat others. It is about how you care for yourself, your home and your family. Living a life in line with la bella figura doesn’t take money. In fact, it is more about how to have class without a lot of money.

Someone who exudes la bella figura will have clean, pressed clothes and be well groomed. They will not be rude or sloppy. Their fingernails will be impeccably groomed. Their hair shiny and clean and their shoes will be polished. They will not have stray threads hanging from their suit hems. They will not be driving a car in need of the car wash.

La bella figura means driving that 15 year old car and meticulously cleaning it and caring for it. It means keeping your belongings in good repair. It means taking time to clean your house and not cluttering it up with meaningless objects.

When you focus all your spare energy, time and money on the things that bring you the most amount of pleasure, then you are truly living a life in line with la bella figura. The best part about it is that you don’t have to be Italian to do so. You just have to think like an Italian.

Italian children are raised to present la bella figura in whatever they do. From the time they are small and are groomed perfectly to attend church or school, they know that appearances count. They count because it is the first thing people judge about you. That first impression does matter. Appearances are also important because when you take the time to look nice, you are showing that you care about yourself. When you care enough to look good, it shows you have good healthy self esteem. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence.

In addition, dressing nice also shows respect for others. If you invite people over for dinner and greet them in flip flops, baggy sweats and a stained shirt, it is really disrespectful to them. The same if you dress sloppy to go to church or even to the market. By dressing nicely and being well groomed, you show respect for everyone in your world.

Having la bella figura means presenting yourself in the best light possible in all your interactions.