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Boyfriend’s Friend’s Closet??

January 2nd, 2010 Kristi Leave a comment Go to comments

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I am really drawn to wearing men’s clothing lately, maybe the cold weather brings it out in me — wanting to snuggle up in something too big and warm.
Well, my husband’s longtime friend (from high school) whom I have also known now for about 20 years was visiting this week and I was admiring his sweater. I said something to the effect that I loved his sweater and wanted to find one like that for my own wear.
Well, he whipped it off and gave it to me right on the spot.
Nice.
So here it is. It is a deep gray, nearly black, 100 percent merino wool from marshall fields that feels like cashmere. What do you think? My dream sweater is one like this that has a super, super deep v neck, but alas I haven’t found one yet and especially now on on my current budget — free or next to nothing!

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  1. Tine
    January 2nd, 2010 at 14:17 | #1
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    I think I’d like to see it belted over a dress or skirt with black opaque tights and your Italian boots.

  2. Kristi
    January 2nd, 2010 at 14:25 | #2
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    hmmm, maybe to mass tomorrow … I’ll give it a shot and take photos if I end up wearing it …

  3. annecychic
    January 2nd, 2010 at 16:29 | #3
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    Have one just like it, and love it on you! K, I also have the Mizrahi book–got it last year–and really enjoyed it.

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